Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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sandysan5743 08/21/2013

How fucking sad that I have to ask strangers to help me but I'm at the end here of what I can handle. I'm scared for what I want to do.

sandysan5743 08/21/2013

Never mind. Ill take care of it.

EmotionalCutter 08/21/2013

Not "sad" at all. Sometimes it is just easier to be open & honest to strangers. I'm new to the site & not entirely sure what you need help with, but I'm here if you need a chat.

deleted_user 08/21/2013

Sandy, please don't do anything rash. I know how you're feeling. I've been there myself. Can you please say what it is you need help with? If you are thinking of hurting yourself please call a crisis hotline or go to your nearest emergency room. Sending prayers your way.

deleted_user 08/21/2013

If you've been through a divorce or breakup we are not strangers. I have made many friends on this board and I know one of us can and will be there for you. Please keep posting.

sandysan5743 08/21/2013

I don't know what to do. i am so done but don't have the courage to hurt my children . my pain engulfs me every minute and i am tired of pretending . but i am a coward.

sandysan5743 08/21/2013

See every one in my life has run away from responsibility and I've kept it going. but now Im done. i have no one to just take care of me.

deleted_user 08/21/2013

Sandy, will you PLEASE contact a crisis hotline?? Or go to the ER. People there will help you. You are not alone.

Blindsidedagain 08/21/2013

What's going on Sandy. Are you down, did something happen? Elaborate for us so we can help.

charliegirl29 08/21/2013

I know that sometimes those hurting isolate during these times and I know very well how difficult it can be without any help. I don't think that anyone here is going to mind you reaching out because it really isn't a burden ....please reach out and touch base and if you find yourself unable to do so...take yourself to ER

gem111 08/21/2013

Sandy,
We are not strangers. Please tell us what we can do to help you.
Things always get better, just when you think it wont.
Maybe going to the ER would be a good thing or the crisis line.
You really need to see someone, Please, Sandy.

(((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))

new2free 08/21/2013

Sandy please know you are not alone. We are all here for each other in whatever way we can be.
I know how overwhelming it can be at times. Please reach out to those who can understand, those of us who have been through these tough dark places, and when you need someone to listen.
BIg (((((hugs))))))

sandysan5743 08/22/2013

Thank you all. I need help and I have reached out and will be seeing someone tomorrow . I scared myself silly this time. Wow. What I almost did.... thanks again every one. I know I can always come here for support .

deleted_user 08/22/2013

((Sandy)).

deleted_user 08/22/2013

I'm glad you are going to see someone. You are not a coward. It takes more courage to admit that we need help and seek it out than to hide our pain. Good thoughts and prayers coming your way.

sandysan5743 08/22/2013

I'm scared to do this. Do I be completely honest about what I'm feeling and risk the consequences or do I tell only as much as I dare?

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