I love giving the silent treatment it would piss off the x.

Daughters do it to her too. I also love how much they are just like me. My lovly reminder to the x everyday.

G!! Thats cruel!!

I have a no contact with her now for about 2 months.

the fact that you still want to piss her off means you still care. thats so sweet.

i dont like silence. it scares me. i didnt know what would be going on in his head.

" the fact that you still want to piss her off means you still care " Who ME? LOL It is just one of the thing that give me happiness.

While she was only my gf, and it only lasted 5 months, we did become incredibly close. We were each other's constant companion, and the times we were apart we always communicated via phone and text. Sharing the simple things, the little joys, the difficulties life threw at us.

When she did get angry, it was very quick and she was a screamer. I really disliked that side of her. But when she dropped me Cold Turkey, I agree, the silence and being totally ignored was hard to swallow for a time.

Anyway, I did come to terms with it, and if it makes any sense I'm really sad for her, but at the same time very, very content and happy with the direction I've now pointed myself in.

I would rather have silence treatment. It is hard at first, but I am pretty sensitive person, and screaming/ throwing things would scare me... if they want to blow me off, so be it... their loss..

Come to think of it, i've never dated someone who shouted, raised their voice during a voice. Wonder if that is normal?

I did date a guy who wouldn't speak to me for days when he got mad, but according to him, I would rather that than the alternative.... I believed him...

that should say "shouted, raise their voice during an argument". arg... time for bed...

Me either. I have no outlet.

Oh what horrible games people play....Glad we don't play those games...We don't allow the such to happen in our marriage, nor one other sleeping on the couch is allowed...Once my husband tried to sleep on the couch when we had an argument, and I told him you try to sleep on the couch I will automatically file for divorce..Now you can come to bed and we can talk civilally about it...we have never done that to each other again..That has only happened 2 times in our 6 yrs togehter..

Wow, 2new....awesome on standing your ground!

I HATE fighting..hate it hate it hate it.

My ex husband rarely slept in our bed..He was always on the couch, and not because I made him stay there.

That reminds me she slept on the couch a few times. I never told her to I just go to bed before her. The bed was soft I am not going to give up my bed for anyone.

This thread is bringing back memories I have not thought about.