yeah, I guess it would hinder the process.

unless that is your intent ;) then go for it

My experience, don't do it. Made it much harder to let go. Had to stop nearly immediately after the big discussion. Speaking just for myself.

I think that would be absolutely the biggest mistake you could possibly make - especially since you're a woman. We, unfortunately, get attached to a man when we have sex with them. You'll never be able to let go or heal if you keep going through that attachment.

I don't think you should do it. Especially if you like an emotional conection when you have sex.
Chances are that it will be very awkward and the emotional conection to really want to please each other may not be there.
Doesn't sound like a good time.

i went there - even after he had GF.

I REALLY THINK IT IS A BAD IDEA.

I went there too; pretty big mistake. I should have learned from watching my teenagers how stupid hormones can make someone!

I have done it. It was the best sex we ever had. I am very sexually driven and I had been warned not to give in to the outlook that when two people separate ALL of the chemestry ends. I initiate it. I think the reason I've had better experiences than some of the others is because I knew that I was in total control of my emotions. He wasn't really interested in my sexuality during the marriage and absence makes the jeans grow tighter. we live in separate states and don't get to see one another very often. The fact that we don't run from the fact that we still love one another is a help. But, I don't leave any doubts that it's an atempt at getting back together. From my personal experience it has helped in the healing process. But sex with the ex is a tricky bitch.

What is sex? I haven't had sex in over 15 years. I can't remember what it feels like. Ex was totally uninterested in sex and anything to do with intimacy. What an idiot I was.

But to answer your question. DON'T DO IT!

It won't help you move forward.

don't do it!!!

I thought about it about a month ago, but no desire to now. It would just degrade me, my body is not for someone who left me.

Alex, you have my respect and sympathy.

Don't do it unless you just wanna have fun I did this told him it was just sex then the last time togetherI knew it was over then I found out he had met someone and was our last hurrah oh well like I said just sex doesn't help the hurt though

Tried it. It's just as difficult for men.

It's a bad idea unless you're trying to reconcile. If not, someone is getting hurt.

i have seen this question before, and i will reply again :) yes, i do. simply cuz she cheated on me to be with the dumbass she is with now. now dumbass THINKS she is exclusive to him (ya, right) so yes, i let her "cheat" on her "boyfreind" with me, her HUSBAND any time i can! what come around, goes around LOL :) and the ultamate payoff is gonna be when the chump finds out, cuz this has been going on for months!