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Self Confidence??

pemdcat
pemdcat
Or the lack of it....... Got it or not?

I tend to put up the great front, but inside I am not that confident around women......never have, once I get started I am OK and I am getting better. /this week end I have 2 ladies tell me that I need not worry, that I am worthy.......growing it soooo hard......
deleted_user
deleted_user
I also put on a good front..

I can act confident when I'm really not.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I almost forgot LMFAO I laughed so hard at your " growing it so hard...."
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh, and I am contextually confident.
deleted_user
deleted_user
dam son, i know you..i love you and you are sooooooooooooooo worthy

good god the care you take care of me.

lord for you women that havent met this man..hes a true kind soul..a gentleman beyond words

THIS IS A GOOD GUY
pemdcat
pemdcat
Making me blush....TY....
deleted_user
deleted_user
ok i went and read the post..this is that lady?? go for it!
pemdcat
pemdcat
yep, I think I may have told you about her...she is definitely top shelf....
deleted_user
deleted_user
What's the song those lyrics are from Cat?
pemdcat
pemdcat
Sheryl Crowe's...... If it Makes You Happy....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yLnYO9gPMc
deleted_user
deleted_user
When I read this, another song came to mind.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0dMBqtGtOU
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
Hell Pemdcat....you have worst part over anyways because you got through the initial stage of talking with her.

If I see a descent looking woman I tend to not speak with her because I don't think that she would be interested in me.

I may be coming out of my shell some though...I am just starting to turn the corner on a new attitude where I don't care if I am single or not. That may spill out a lot more self-confidence because, truthfully, I don't care if I find someone or not. If I do...great...If I don't it sure is a lot easier not having to deal with someone else's personality.

I think that women can sence self confidence and they are attracted to it.