Bad contacts day....growing it soooo hard. = growing IS soooo hard...Freudian slip?

sorry pem, lmfao - growing it sooo hard!!!

Yeah, I always thought I was more interesting after a few drinks. Turned out not to be true.

i'm more interesting after the other person has a few drinks

and look at you.... you are finding this out and are learning from it!!!!!

YAY!!!

*Put it down, KE* (Am I on repeat?)

You know's who's interesting? TD66. Weird, though.

One of the things my STBX mentioned was an issue with her, before she admitted that she was having another affair, was that I lacked self-confidence. Of course, your wife cheating on you with six different men really doesn't inspire a lot of self-confidence in a person.

But, after a lot of pain and soul-searching, I have found that I DO have every reason in the world to be confident in myself and am trying really hard to project that. Something happened recently that really made me believe some of the things she'd said to me over the years (good things) and now I am starting to feel more and more confident in myself every day.

Was that you blowing smoke up my ass, J?

self-esteem, self-confidence, i don't have it where i need it. infact, started back to counseling, have an appt. this afternoon. xoxoxoxox

"If it makes you happy
It can't be that bad
If it makes you happy
Then why the hell are you so sad"

My new words to live by??????
If it makes me happy...I won't be sad!!!!!!

Hey, 2 ladies in one weekend telling you you are worth it! That's great! I'm sure you are.
Keep growing! (it or is, whatever suits you).

J is a great guy. (That's Pem, not Jaken. She's all woman.)

Sometimes I got it. Sometimes I don't. We all want validation. Don't we?

Good post, Pem.

I have learned that self-confidence deteriorates when you bring the fear or concern with what others think into determining the level of self-confidence.

We can only control presentation, not perception.