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I'm really not gonna talk in the third person as my thread title suggests, so here it is...one time only.
I apologize if I offended anyone by talking about tacos. My intention was not to offend anyone and I have never tried to intentionally hurt anyone in this support group. This place has helped me tremendously and I am thankful for finding it...
With that being said, I am not going to intentionally censor myself for the sake of others.
What I will do, is make a conscious effort NOT to use the term "tacos" in a thread where it has no place.
I joke with many people here, to alleviate the crap that has gone on in my marriage. Acting stupid has helped me get through this difficult time in my life and I'm pretty sure it has helped others who have participated.
I sincerely hope that my words or actions would not cause a person to leave this site.
Please just ignore me if you don't like me and I will make an effort not to use the term "tacos" when it interferes with a serious post. Actually I don't think I have ever done that, but still I will make the effort to use discretion.
I hope this clears things up for some. For others, I'm sorry if you don't like me...
...but I am who I am and I'm not going to change me, to please those who don't like me.
THANK YOU WORLD!..
AND GOODNIGHT!
I apologize if I offended anyone by talking about tacos. My intention was not to offend anyone and I have never tried to intentionally hurt anyone in this support group. This place has helped me tremendously and I am thankful for finding it...
With that being said, I am not going to intentionally censor myself for the sake of others.
What I will do, is make a conscious effort NOT to use the term "tacos" in a thread where it has no place.
I joke with many people here, to alleviate the crap that has gone on in my marriage. Acting stupid has helped me get through this difficult time in my life and I'm pretty sure it has helped others who have participated.
I sincerely hope that my words or actions would not cause a person to leave this site.
Please just ignore me if you don't like me and I will make an effort not to use the term "tacos" when it interferes with a serious post. Actually I don't think I have ever done that, but still I will make the effort to use discretion.
I hope this clears things up for some. For others, I'm sorry if you don't like me...
...but I am who I am and I'm not going to change me, to please those who don't like me.
THANK YOU WORLD!..
AND GOODNIGHT!
I HEART RBABBYYYY!!!
Sometimes what we read on here is so close to home or weighs heavily on the mind we need the likes of your threads to pull us back to the surface. I cant often relate to some of the threads you post as i am from the Uk & feel a bit out of the loop because i am not familiar with some of these words you use like "Tacos" but my daughters friend has just arrived in LA to go to university so i asked her to find out what Tacos are, well just when i finally find out & am now in the loop the word Tacos is now being listed as 'old' just my luck! I also asked her to let me know what taco bell is, i thought it was a cheap shop where your kids wouldnt dare admit to their friends that you bought groceries from there, lol. I think your threads are fun, they have made me laugh many times when i have been feeling like shit.
stm--love the video!!
And yes I speak like this all the time. Mt conversations are peppered with obscenities.
Rman, doll, you cannot tale responsibility for someones reactions to your statements.
It drives me to distraction that someone will bitch and moan about being offended by how one speaks or how another one addresses an issue.
WHY is what offends one person wrong and WHY. Is that persons pervieved offense moumportant than what someone else has to say? How come someone can get upset by something and totally upset the applecart? Holy hell.
Now my hurt is far worse than anyone elses right now.
I like you too Rman, youre the first guy on here I almost let hug me. That says a LOT. And I remember laughing the first time I read a taco comment. AND I am kinda tired of it now too.
Changing for someone else isnt whats being asked I dont think. Consideration is, and being sensitive to others who for whatever reason (Important to them) are upset by it, is a really decent thing to do. Really.
My mother gets very upset when she climbs into my car and I peeel out of the driveway!!! hahaha...poor woman. I love her, I peel out of all the driveways I want, but I make a point of considering her feelings, because I'd like not to upset her for any reason if I can help it.
:)
even though when I was 8 my dad bought her a Corvette Stingray for Mothers Day, which she eventually totaled on the QEW. But I dont remind her of that either!!!
That you care enough about other members to do that, sounds like a great compromise :)