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Reality is setting in

HeaveToo
HeaveToo
I woke up drepressed again this morning. I think that reality is setting in. I am so fustrated because I don't have any control of my life right now. I have to sit here and wait for my wife to make the first move now. I am giving her the space she is asking for but it is just a tough situation.

I think that it is going to get even harder when I go back to work. After I get off of work I won't be able to head home....that will really hurt.

It is not that there isn't any hope. I can truely deal with whatever comes my way. Why am I so depressed? This really sucks!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
lol. I always say no need for me to worry if billy joel's song is true. Only the good die young--:*)
MsBlank1
MsBlank1
Limbo really does suck.I've been living in divorce warp 4 long years now.I've taken control where I can,but the rest just really sucks big time. Sometimes i don't know if I'm coming or going.It's so good to have DS and all the wonderful ppl here to help us thru and help us with words of wisdom. You will make it and this is part of the rollercoaster ride...do you have your seatbelt securely on?
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
Okay...feeling slightly better but another reality check. I don't have a BLOODY AIRCONDTIONER in this boat and it is BLOODY HOT. I have a fan blowing on me to make it tolerable.

I also need to get a refridgerator for this summer. I am tired of wasting money on ice for the icebox.

I can truely say that my wife has put me in hell. Think about it......Hell is a hot place and there is no hope.....sounds strangely familiar
deleted_user
deleted_user
I feel just as you do. My heart breaks more each day. I know you can do this and stay focused! I take one hour at a time and when that seems overwhelming I take one minute at a time! When you said you dreaded not being able to go home. I know exactly what you mean. I am a teacher and dread the day in August when I have to turn to go home and not be able to go there! I am trying to make the house I am renting feel like home but I lived in our home for 12 years. I just wish I would have known the house was in his mother's name. You will make it and in the end you will be stronger. I feel like divorce is like a death. You can do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!