One time my wife was mad because I didn't pressure wash the deck. She said, "this is why I won't sleep with you." She's a real nice woman. I'm gonna pressure wash her ass...

yeh, I see how the two relate...

withholding sex is not the way to go... pisses everyone off IMO

@ Rman -

Babies come down from the sky on bumpercellas - I saw that on The Grinch Who Stole Christmas...

@ Dave17

All sex is dirty sex...*washes hands*

At reply #21...she wants me...she just doesn't know it yet...
kidding.

ACT...that's nothing to wash hands about...

@#21, why do you want to be here, replying to this thread when your reply, as is, isn't welcomed?

Who's #21? A previous member? This place is confusing.

which most new profiles aren't a previous member rman?

Rman3-D

I like it dude!

I have no pride. I just want to have sex.

Some diminished sex drive is physical, and...hormonal for women in most cases...which contributes to mental, and emotional..

physical and...mental for men..."ego, pride, embarrased" i.e. "impotence"

Paul, I'm not chasing after my wife. I have just chosen not to cheat on her since this all went down. I have chosen to support her, through her OCD, ADHD, non-working BS on DS, because of my kids. I had an intervention with her parents this weekend. They grilled me, as did she. She gave certain guidelines for me to follow if I wanted to try and make the marriage work. I am just curious as to how someone loses a sex drive. I mean, I look at a woman and could easily have sex with her...based strictly on looks. I just don't understand the human mind.

I found that going to the lawyer and filing for divorce brought back my sex drive pretty much overnight.

I cannot identify - i have NEVER and hopefully will never lose it!!in fact I think i am in over-drive!