Awww silly Nova, the humans made that word up, and attached a value to it. That's all. Go have fun with your cunt.

Oxy, I meant in the content that ALL women are bitches and cunts and evil and cheaters. I take offense when a male attacks me because he is using me as a surrogate for his ex.

Giddy

I think that for the most part, when RMan is talking about tacos.. he means TACOS. he is obsessed with junk food.

Maybe there is a libidenous innuendo from time to time, (from him or from others) but for the most part, he is a simpleton who really likes mexican food.

HI Rman, I hope your daughters are feeling better this morning.

If people do not like you for who you are, fuck 'em

No apology needed--for me. I enjoy your posts.

Oxy go get some C then. Have fun.

drama.... gotta love it... NOT..... doesn't everyone have enough drama in their offline lives with our breakups and leaning to live alone again without having to cause more on here??? good lord... if you don't like posts by a person do NOT open them... ignore is a good feature... but if you choose to open them do NOT bash the writer from writing something that makes them smile and make it through each day... we all deal with this shit in different ways

maybe all the bashing is just a way of regaining some control in your lives... but all it does is cause more hurt feelings and anger that we all do NOT need right now

we all need a place to vent or laugh or just make it through the day without feeling ostracized... if you are leaving because of forum postings, well that's your right but tell me? why make a huge announcement about it? doesn't that just stir up more bad feelings and cause more drama?

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
Mother Teresa

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.--Dr. Suess

Do what you feel in your heart to be right, for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do and damned if you don't.--Eleanor Roosevelt

Anything else?

I was one of those persons who told rman I was tired of his stupid posts (this was months and months ago). I felt like he hogged up the whole front page, etc etc. We traded pm's about it.

And then something happened...I don't remember what it was. Maybe he said to me don't read his posts. Maybe a friend said to me, he has the right to post whatever he wants. And I realized, that's right. He does have the right to post whatever he wants to.

Rman cut down on his multiple front page posts, and I laid off him. Didn't read his posts. And then the next thing I know, I'm reading his posts and participating in them. And oddly enough, now we're friends.

I think people need to say what they need to say to each other, and then let it go. I don't think Rman's posts are offensive, but that's me. I did find them annoying in the past, but now I ignore them if I'm not in the mood. No big deal.

We are always going to have and need silly and light-hearted threads here. If people stop Rman, someone else will come along.

I hope courier comes back. I enjoy her. But Rman has the right to post what he wants.

Couriers point was not centered on RMAN... she was talking in general... the term is used in almost every thread.... kinda like some on here were welding it as a weapon, just to irritate or annoy.... several days, not one post went without someone telling him that he needed to refer to taco's... Courier had a good point and to keep being told to stay out of his posts if we didn't like it is silly.... when it is in EVERY THREAD, no matter what the topic of the thread is!

i understand giddy. but again, i don't think it done out of mailice,

they are just jackasses. (i mean that in the nicest possible way (((jackasses)))

I don't know what the blow up is or was but using my context clues I guess I get it. But here is the deal;

It doesn't bother me for several reasons. One reason being that there are a great many vulgar words that could be used here. Another being that it's sexuality. Most of us (you) haven't been involved with anyone is quite sometime. Sexual frustration is apart of BUD. I think it's being said in a playful way but sex is apart of life and it's a HUGE part of our situations.