Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Rman 04/12/2010

Do you think that fighting is a bad thing? Whether it's physically, or verbally, doesn't fighting serve some purpose? Would it be weird for someone to enjoy getting punched?

LKess 04/12/2010

Your elbow still hurts but your finger is a distraction.......

deleted_user 04/12/2010

I was recently involved in a fight. It was verbal and i felt served no purpose but to make me dislike and mistrust the other person even more. Actually if anyone would like to physically hurt this person for me...that would be cool ;)

deleted_user 04/12/2010

*Paging the merc*

deleted_user 04/12/2010

I understand liking to push yourself to your limits. I've done that ... I have the scars to remind me. I don't understand picking fights and I know people like that. I think that smacks of self hate seeking punishment.

Verbal altercations belong in that same category. But a good discussion that doesn't get out of hand and exercises the mind and your verbal acuity -- that's just plain fun!

deleted_user 04/12/2010

Bella,

I agree with everything you said.

The one thing I miss about my exS are the late night discussions/debates.

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