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But women can answer too.
Here is the situation:
You are home sick in bed. Not feeling well. You know you are a big baby when it comes to being sick. You hate it. You dont want to be bothered, you just want to sleep.
Your girlfriend goes to the local grocery store to pick up a few items. You x wife works in that grocery store. She is working that day. Your girlfriend starts to tell the cashier and the bagger what a big baby you are when you are sick. She doesnt know these people, but they know who she is because of the x wife.
So, the gf goes on about men being babies when they are sick and that she is taking care of a big baby at home because he is sick. She is talking about you.
My question to you is:
A: How would you feel if you found out she was saying this stuff about you to strangers?
B: Would you want to know she is saying this stuff?
C: What would you do about it?
Just wondering. Im off to work now. At the local grocery store:)
Will check in later! LOL
Here is the situation:
You are home sick in bed. Not feeling well. You know you are a big baby when it comes to being sick. You hate it. You dont want to be bothered, you just want to sleep.
Your girlfriend goes to the local grocery store to pick up a few items. You x wife works in that grocery store. She is working that day. Your girlfriend starts to tell the cashier and the bagger what a big baby you are when you are sick. She doesnt know these people, but they know who she is because of the x wife.
So, the gf goes on about men being babies when they are sick and that she is taking care of a big baby at home because he is sick. She is talking about you.
My question to you is:
A: How would you feel if you found out she was saying this stuff about you to strangers?
B: Would you want to know she is saying this stuff?
C: What would you do about it?
Just wondering. Im off to work now. At the local grocery store:)
Will check in later! LOL
On the flip side, I found out time after time, that she would diss me to her friends and family. She would complain about how I did this or that. And, it really hurt. I believe that if you have a problem with someone, talk about it with them. ... And, that said, I needed to learn how to do this better so that she didn't think I was critisizing her. I have learnt a lot on better ways to phrase what hurts me. And, I've learnt a lot of ways to find out what is hurting her... Now... if...
Oh well...
It's not good to talk about people behind their back... Unless it is something good. (Or, there is a serious issue, and you are talking to a counselor or religious advisor.)
ok checkit.
While waiting on a ridiculous health insurance standoff at the pharmacy a few weeks ago, this woman came in to get her sister-in-law's baby's perscription. She b*tiched and b*tched and B*TICHED about this woman that her brother married. But made no point that warranted her public b*tchfest. Then said wretched sister-in-law calls on the cell and the b*tchy woman picks up with the most sickeningly sweet "oh, HEY! how's the BABY?"
argh!
The GF KNOWS I work in that store. The gf KNOWS what I look like and who I am. I am the x wife. The stbx was the one who was sick.
The gf also used to do anything to aggrivate me, until stbx threatened her to stop. (not to protect me, but to keep me off his back about her.)
She likes drama. She likes to piss me off. She doesnt like it when things are going well between me and the stbx. She likes to stir the pot.
Are you asking whether you should say something to her directly because she was obviously doing this knowing that you would hear it? Why give her the satisfaction of knowing that it bothered you?
Hell, why *does* it bother you? Who cares? It's between him and her.
I'd look at it as harmless bs'ing.
Of course, I like the rat poison idea too.--lmao!
She's just yanking your chain, don't dignify her drama with a response. Acknowledging her only gives her power.