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But women can answer too.
Here is the situation:
You are home sick in bed. Not feeling well. You know you are a big baby when it comes to being sick. You hate it. You dont want to be bothered, you just want to sleep.
Your girlfriend goes to the local grocery store to pick up a few items. You x wife works in that grocery store. She is working that day. Your girlfriend starts to tell the cashier and the bagger what a big baby you are when you are sick. She doesnt know these people, but they know who she is because of the x wife.
So, the gf goes on about men being babies when they are sick and that she is taking care of a big baby at home because he is sick. She is talking about you.
My question to you is:
A: How would you feel if you found out she was saying this stuff about you to strangers?
B: Would you want to know she is saying this stuff?
C: What would you do about it?
Just wondering. Im off to work now. At the local grocery store:)
Will check in later! LOL
Here is the situation:
You are home sick in bed. Not feeling well. You know you are a big baby when it comes to being sick. You hate it. You dont want to be bothered, you just want to sleep.
Your girlfriend goes to the local grocery store to pick up a few items. You x wife works in that grocery store. She is working that day. Your girlfriend starts to tell the cashier and the bagger what a big baby you are when you are sick. She doesnt know these people, but they know who she is because of the x wife.
So, the gf goes on about men being babies when they are sick and that she is taking care of a big baby at home because he is sick. She is talking about you.
My question to you is:
A: How would you feel if you found out she was saying this stuff about you to strangers?
B: Would you want to know she is saying this stuff?
C: What would you do about it?
Just wondering. Im off to work now. At the local grocery store:)
Will check in later! LOL
Then one time my ex thought that I was faking being sick. Finally I had her take to the hospital. Turns out that I was having a heart attack.
People act differently when they are sick. I know a lot of women who say that guys can't take pain as well as women (probably true in some things).
All of that being said...when it is time for a gut check and you need to tough it out can you. I proved a lot to myself that day when I broke my arm in half.
I wouldn't worry about the stuff the gf was saying. She was probably just joking around with the cashier about it. That being said, I would talk to her about it and let her know that it got back to you and that you were a little hurt by this. Communication is the key in any relationship!
I am no baby, but everytime I WAS sick, it was due to near death sickness, and yes, I always had to take care of myself... My then wife always thought when I was "really" sick that I was being a baby, when in reality, I think I may have been sick twice in 12 years... Once due to an operation I was recouperating from...
Being a baby, he's pouring it on, so his gf will take care of him, sure, but also, there's this underlying drama about her saying this in the store where you work.
Some people get enjoyment out of trying to stir the pot of chicken soup instead of letting it simmer.
No reason to even give a care about this.
One last thing, if I were sick, I'd suggest to my gf to stay away until I was well so she didn't get sick..