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One thing I won't miss

Rman
Rman
You know what I'm not gonna miss? The freakin' shopping that she did every freakin' day of the freakin' week, because she was freakin' bored. She never looked at a bill, paid a bill, or gave a crap about a bill. She never cared that she would often spend hundreds of dollars a week on nothing. If I tried to talk to her about our financial situation and spending, she would get pissed.

Ok...sorry. I think if I let this crap out, then I will learn to realize that there were many, many fucked up things about our relationship. I feel a little bit better now.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I need to get out more! I was talking about cutting the grass and all of sudden I am involved in something that sounds slightly naughty but yet inviting. LMAO.. I am going to need your number Bear!
deleted_user
deleted_user
i don't miss the - oh shit i'm still living with her....grrrrrrr
deleted_user
deleted_user
Vent vent vent away......Been there! I am sooooo happy not to be there now!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Jaken, how about if we shove some of the tools that he forgot to take or should I say steal.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh no... I emotionally shop, is that going to cost us "Dinner"? I don't spend hundreds though, I do make a budget before I enter a store... Unless it's smelly things, then all bets are off...
deleted_user
deleted_user
if I have to go shopping....it takes 20 minutes tops before I have anxiety...ON LINE SHOPPING!
deleted_user
deleted_user
OH shut up Z... he's mine.. not yours... I don't share, I've told you that. Stop trying to suck up... Hearts and Candy?
deleted_user
deleted_user
i understand completely..i was going to 3 cash advances every other friday for 3 years..every one who worked at each place knew my name..we spent over 900 a month on just the interest..plus, she bounced at least 1 check each week for about 3 years..no frikkin lie!! i havent bounced a check since the divorce..matter of fact, i found out her mother is now babysitting her 1 year old because mr. bigdick aint around and she cant afford babysitter any more..she brings home 800 a week and cant pay her bills but she can run around with her girlfriends who helped brainwash her at her job and spend moeny galore..she should at least pay the christian school she robbed of 7,500 dollars b4 she goes gallivating around.
deleted_user
deleted_user
*finger at the bleach blonde snotty brat from hell*
FrankTheGreat
FrankTheGreat
Ummm, I actually kind of like shopping. The grocery store, Costco, the mall, it's all good.

BUT I'M STILL ALL MAN, BABY.

(I like musicals, too!)
Jenna7873
Jenna7873
OMG thank you Frank... I didn't want to be the first to admit it!

I like shopping too! I positively LOVE getting a good bargain on something as well.

The difference though is that when I shop, I shop with my own money. I've had a job since I was 15 years old. I like my financial independence and cannot imagine doing anything like what Rman describes.

Rman - I totally get why you wouldn't miss that!
FrankTheGreat
FrankTheGreat
Marshall's and Loehmann's rule it, Jenna.

Nordstrom Rack can bite me. They don't discount enough.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Bloomingdales is having a housewares sale this weekend. I might get a new bed spread.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Marshalls...TJMaxx...HomeGoods... the Barney's sale... *sigh*

Other than that, I *hate* shopping. (Clothes)

Now food, the market... I could do that for HOURS....
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sweeet, have you ever been to a Wegmans? If not, I think you would orgasm the second you walked inside.