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On a scale

Rman
Rman
On a scale of 1 to 10, how ok are you? I would say that I'm about a 6. When I came to DS (one year ago, tomorrow), I was probably about a 1. I hope that one year from now, I can make it up to a 7 or 8. I really don't think that a 10, or even a 9 is possible, so I'm not gonna worry too much about getting to that point. Just a thought...
deleted_user
deleted_user
5-ish? When I first came on here 2 years ago, I was negative 1.
deleted_user
deleted_user
i'm going with a steady 8. when i first came here i was suicidal.
deleted_user
deleted_user
When I first came to DS I was a 1. Right now, today, I'm an 8. There are so many things to be happy about and so many things to be grateful for in my life. I'm going to enjoy it while I can!
LKess
LKess
I'm a fluctuating 5. Somedays I can get to a 7 and some days I am a 3.
I'm glad you are in a better place than a year ago Rbaby.
deleted_user
deleted_user
8.3
JennyMe
JennyMe
8.5

hi
deleted_user
deleted_user
8.56574
deleted_user
deleted_user
9.5
deleted_user
deleted_user
When did DS go metric?
deleted_user
deleted_user
coq
pemdcat
pemdcat
8.999999999999999999999999 from an initial reading of 3 back in 3/08
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am around a 4 but I have only been on DS since January. I am trying real hard to have more good days than bad.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Maybe a 3.

But i'm up, at work and surfing "last minute vacation" websites to find somwhere to go in the next 3 weeks.
deleted_user
deleted_user
1 is something to hope for...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't think I'm that even keeled to ascribe my feelings to one number. I'm all over the place, it seems.

Probably a 7 on good days (I have those once in a while) and a 3 on bad days.

I have a personal anniversary or two coming up myself.