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diemjs 05/27/2008

Something else I want to ask. Im sure this has been done, but it always makes us stop and really think about the person we were with.

Im know there are many for me. Fill in the blank: The one thing I remember most I HATED about him/her was...

At family dinners, he and his father and brothers would FART and LAUGH about it! An Irish Catholic family. Special occassions, Easter, Christmas, birthdays...they did it! I was so embarrassed! And it didnt matter who was there. My mother, or another non-family memeber, a guest. SO ugly!!!

deleted_user 05/27/2008

OK..... THAT'S not funny... sleeping with your sister! GOOD GRIEF! sorry, CJ71...

diemjs 05/27/2008

((HUGS)) to you CJ, I hate that about your stbx, too!!

deleted_user 05/27/2008

I hate him even more because he did her on my deerstand... THAT, MY FRIENDS IS JUST UNFORGIVABLE!
(I forgot, this was supposed to be a fun one.)

diemjs 05/27/2008

Well CJ, the deerstand part made it kind of fun.

deleted_user 05/27/2008

ok....... I'm hugging a dill doe.......((((((((((CJ71)))))))))))

diemjs 05/27/2008

vhj, better you than me!!!

deleted_user 05/27/2008

One thing that bothered me is that when her or her family needed me, it was so easy to ask and receive but the moment my world started crashing, they found it easy to leave me to carry the weight.

Give him the children, leave him the house and bills, let him find a babysitter, etc
etc.

For her, it's alright to go out, don't worry about anything, you can move back home with no responsibility, I couldn't make my marriages work so why should you have to?

Those were the days. LOL

diemjs 05/27/2008

OOO! Heres another one!

I hated the fact that, if I didnt say HI or Goodbye, or even goodnight, he wouldnt speak to me and make a snide remark about it.

Funny thing is, if a stranger or a friend doesnt say hi to him before talking to him, he will ignore them!

deleted_user 05/27/2008

While driving in the car he would pick his nose roll whatever gem came out between his fingers and flick it out the window or in the winter on the floor of the car!! YUCK!

diemjs 05/27/2008

EEEWWWW 7th! That IS gross!

deleted_user 05/27/2008

EWWW, 7th, I agree with diemjs, that one is gross...

And I hated that he hated my sense of humor... made for a dull life.

deleted_user 05/27/2008

Or maybe I just hated that he was a dull husband?!?!?!

deleted_user 05/27/2008

OMG...7nth! thanks for the visual... *thhhhhhppppp!*

diemjs 05/27/2008

I hated that he only brushed his teeth twice a day.

Maybe Im a little anal, but when you chew tobacco....

deleted_user 05/27/2008

diemjs ~ I HATE when a guy chews tobacco! gross...

I dated a guy in high school that chewed ... I would never kiss him ~ thus, we broke up! geeeeezzzz

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