Breakups & Divorce Support Group

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i have friends and I have family but they aren't her. The only person I want here to talk to about things. She has stopped all contact is unbearable. I can text her dad but he is looking out for his daughter so tells me to forget her. I don't want to forget I want to love. She understands me and helps me without even knowing it. I know I can be the man she saw me for I am growing everyday for her but without her that growth gets harder and harder she is my insperation and my best friend my role model my everything.  

imiru
imiru
Take a deep breath, take a few steps back and really think about this. How has she treated you? Ignoring you? Moving on from you and letting other people speak for her? This all sounds very one sided and that is not healthy. I just had someone who pretended to care about me for months suddenly break up with me and then cut off all contact. I'm sure you want answers but at this point you have to remember she doesn't owe you anything.
One last thing, there are billions of people in the world. We are very overstocked on ourselves so there are multiple soul mates for everyone. I know she may seem like the only light in your eyes but thats only because your not looking at the rest of the picture.
you sound like a very caring and dedicated person, why not direct all of that care and passion into taking care of yourself and bettering yourself. Who knows, maybe in the future she will come around but for right now you have to learn how to take care of you.