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When we split up for some reason we cry and look back on all the good things about the ex. I say we look back and remember some of the nasty habits they had that drove us crazy and we will not miss in the least!
I will start: exhusband, burped, all the time! It was so gross! He lived on Tums!
Exfiance, was OCD and cheap. Had this dish scrubber that was so nasty and he would not throw it away, even after I bought a new one! it was like his woobie or something. I told him I thought it had crap growning in it, yet Mr. Germaphobe continued to use it, yuck!
Tell me about your freaks and what you will NOT MISS!
I will start: exhusband, burped, all the time! It was so gross! He lived on Tums!
Exfiance, was OCD and cheap. Had this dish scrubber that was so nasty and he would not throw it away, even after I bought a new one! it was like his woobie or something. I told him I thought it had crap growning in it, yet Mr. Germaphobe continued to use it, yuck!
Tell me about your freaks and what you will NOT MISS!
My X used to pick his nose and leave it all over on furniture, etc. He refused to believe that closing your mouth when you chew is good manners. He used things and left them just anywhere, and when he couldn't find them later, it was my fault. He had long nose hairs that hung wetly down beyond his nostril and could not see why I wanted him to trim them. He refused to trim his razor-sharp toenails and if he did, I'd be walking on them in the bathroom later.
1. Smoking
2. Wanting a kiss after smoking (yuk!)
3. Bossy
4. Very critical of anything I did
5. Didn't respect me
6. Never asked about my day at work or my interests
7. Totally into himself--could sit a talk about the most boring subjects for hours (yes, I timed him once).
8. Never tried to improve his mind--wouldn't read a newspaper if his life depended on it
9. Mean to his daughter and mother
10. Lied and cheated; wouldn't tell me if he used protection with the ow; said I could beleive what I wanted to believe.
11. Lousy kisser--never did kiss well
12. Only concerned about his sexual satisfaction, not mine
13. Totally unorganized--couldn't find his wallet, keys, tools, shoes, etc. if they all up his ass
14. Can't manage money
15. Terrible spendthrift yet if I wanted to buy something he bitched liked I'd just drained Fort Knox
16. Very verbally abusive
17. Always sent mixed messages and contradicted himself but would tell me I was "lying" if I didn't tell him exactly what I was feeling.
Oh the list could go on. Obviously, I don't miss him.
OMG they could be twins... did yours have skid marks too?! *gags*
I can't finish eating my lovely cheetos since I started reading this thread. I think I actually puked in my mouth a little.
Anyway...I can say alot of the same things. But not to get into too much detail:
I love not having to look down when I walk (who KNOWS what I would step in)
Toilets don't leak in the front
Bathroom sinks don't really grow little hairs, and neither does my toothbrush...
I love being able to have white sheets again!
The shower stall doesn't have lumpies growing on it...
Napkins are actually used in the house now, not just the furniture..
(lots more but gonna end it now)
And my favorite thing is........
People STILL stay when they come over (over a year later), "Wow, Amy, you're house smells so good nowadays! Not like before...."
Blllleeccccccccchhhhh.
1. Toilet paper always had to hang with the paper coming over the top!
2. Couldn't stand if I didn't have MY commuter mug clean.
3. I had to mow in the directions he wanted ( 2/12 acres).
4. #1 his socipathic, narcistic, BP personality!
1, 2, and 3 I could live with not #4.
Just have to find that balance ya know!
#2 Not brushing his teeth (bad breath)
#3 belching were it sounds wet and gurgled (YUK)
#4 Sneezing a HUGE sneeze and not covering his mouth
#5 making fun of everything I buy
#6 Embarrassing me in public w/his attitude
#7 The LIES
#8 Chewing w/his mouth open
#9 When he'd shave he'd leave hair shavings in the sink.
Letting the shower fairies clean out the hair ball
The few time she ever did the laundry, thinking the laudry fairies folded the clothes too, and then getting me to iron her clothes
Never telling me where she hid the money tree
I have to admit, my life was on how much I did for others, if they were happy I was happy.
I am really enjoying the freedom of only being responsible for me!