I might throw in a yogurt if I'm feeling real bad...

Flippen coffee, just is the best invention ever...

*he spit constantly!
*he snored so loud, earplugs were useless
*whined constantly about EVERYTHING, and expected me to fix whatever he'd whine about
*that smart assed smirk he'd give when i was upset about anything.
*he still won't stop playing with my hair despite being told several times to stop
*he'd "talk" when he burped, groos! even in public

I can't go here, but suffice it to say that I am glad that I am where I am at this moment,.. Down right thankful.. Kimmee

I too am losing my lunch with some of this crap! OMG!
Hmmmm...lemme see....
1) hidden drug habit
2) alcohol problem
3) sleeping with other women problem
4) Anal retentive
5) Also left skid marks
6) Bad gas too

Joy appears you hit the jackpot! He had all the fun habits!

Luck me! lol. *roll eyes* That is why I call "DO OVER!" :-p

Great thread! My ex farted constantly, never washed (never) even though he worked on a golf course and expected me to have sex with him! He had a cocaine habit (which I unknowingly paid for), he drank too much, he drank so much and took that much cocaine that he could never sustain an erection, but it never stopped him trying. He used the same lines in bed - always. His house was filthy, he lied constantly, about anything, even things that didn't matter, he picked at his teeth with anything he could get his hands on, he walked about my house in his underpants when my friends were in (like he was god's gift) - he just didn't know that all my friends knew about his little erection problem. I had to constantly stroke his ego by telling him how big his penis was (Im thinking prepubescent boy size) and how great a lover he was (see previous complaint). He picked his nose and always used my car and not his. Boy, I miss him...

Isn't it funny we all picked out and loved these people, but now (if you are like me), we would never even consider someone that had such habits. I would kick a guy to the curb for much less and have!

My husband started out good in bed, when we were dating, then he got lazy and thought I was suppose to do all the work, when he did try, he was so out of shape he would sweat all over me, ICK!

Habits, were constantly playing videos, and lying, GOD! why can't a man just fess up when he fucks up?

Well, I hope next time I will. I cant even blame youth on my last choice - I was 37 when I met him! But, you're right, I will make better choices in future, and have walked away from potential relationships for much less. Trust your insticts, I will from now on. Although, after my experiences with the classy gents Ive been with, it beggers belief why I'd even try again!

I know what you mean. I think it will take Prince Charming himself to get me to fall again!

I made this list when the whole breakdown started:

The "monster" - he treats others like crap
The way he eats like a peasant - he knows better
The way he makes me repeat everything over and over
The way he doesn't listen
The way he wanted to shoot the deer
The way he interrupts when people are speaking
The way he drives
The way he won't talk to me
The way he chews his gum
His attitutde about different cultures
His selfishness
His childness
His stubborness
He smokes
His arrogance
He thinks Americans have a superiority complex (! ? )
The way he can wear the same clothes over and over
He doesn't shave
He doesn't brush his teeth
His view about handicapped people
His constant need for outside validation (Right?)
The way he "changes the subject" when he is bored with the speaker's topic
The way he says the same thing over and over
Toothpicks
Nose picking
"Surgery" - picking at his face and body
"Hitting" and tapping at you when he talks to you
Peeing anywhere

and you left this guy?! What were you thinking??? I must admit, by the end of my last relationship, even hearing my ex breathing bothered me, the way he walked, the way he dressed, the way he ate, his "greater than thou" attitude, just about everything. I think most of all but, was definately the way he prided himself on his bedroom technique. I can honestly say, without any hint of sarcasm or bitterness, it was the worst, most boring sex Ive ever had. I once watched a football (soccer) game on tv over his shoulder (not the whole game, about 2 minutes of it) and another time I counted the repeat in the pattern of his ceiling. Exciting stuff

My pet peeves were:

1. Using things then leaving them all over the house which made it impossible to keep things organized or find them when you needed them. (example: using deoderant & leaving it on the dining room table instead of using it & putting it back where it belonged.)

2. Constantly losing his keys, wallet, & credit cards. (I've had to rescue him so many times when he locked himself out of the car.)

3. His thinking he answered me when he didn't.

4. Not listening or caring when I spoke about my job.

5. Worst of all of course being the lying & cheating.