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My wife is so petty.

Somerdad34
Somerdad34
I wrote this in my journal.

My wife is so petty. She will not give me my Boogie Board that I bought last year. She is saying, since I broke her father's boogie board, which he gave me, that it doesn't belong to me and I can't have it. It's a fucking boogie board and she is giving me a hard time about it.

I hate her so much. She will do anything to push my buttons. She is fucking moron. I hate her. She keeps saying amicable relations, fuck amicable if this is how she treats me.

I can't wait to get all my stuff out of the house. She will use anything to control me or to rile me.

Thanks for DS, I let out my frustration here. I CAN"T BELIEVE HOW PETTY SHE IS. SHE IS A FUCKING NUTSOID.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I did not argue the point with him at all, I simply pointed out that I had bought it, and also I had left him 4 duvet sets. But he kept rambling on, he wanted that one. I think 4 versus one, is not being petty. If I would of taken the lot, then I would of been petty.
Somerdad34
Somerdad34
I am not fighting my stbx for the board, I just wanted to mention how petty she is.
Somerdad34
Somerdad34
here is another one of her pettiness. She asked me If I could pick up the kids early, but I couldn't because of work. So, she has to make arrangements for a babysitter. Sh ewants me to pay for the sitter because i can't pick them up early. What nerve she has.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Okay, here's a crackpot theory to try out: What if she is just trying to get you mad, so that YOU look like the bad guy, and she can feel better about herself for acting so badly and having a boyfriend? Just a little different direction for this....
deleted_user
deleted_user
Just to give you a laugh: When I first read your title, I thought you had said that your wife was so PRETTY. I thought it was very broadminded of you to notice how pretty she was even when she was acting like a f***ing nutsoid!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey Somerdad...I hear ya and YEAH, it's JUST a freakin' boogie board...she could be decent and just give it to you. Unfortunately, divorce does get messy sometimes. *sigh* BUT hell ya know what...it's not like you are wanting her to pay for half of a Hot Mama Pickle!!! (Sorry Ashew....I just HAD to say it!!! (((HUG)))) Stay strong Somerdad!
Somerdad34
Somerdad34
hey purple fish:

You are right about her wanting me to be the bad guy. She blames me for everything that has happened so far. She is only "protecting" herself.
tictac72
tictac72
I am embarrased to say that I have done some things to purposely tick my x off. I realized after how stupid and petty I was being. She too will realize what she is doing, hopefully. I now purposely try to be nice to him, until he doesn't answer the phone when I call the kids.

I would try to go get your stuff ASAP before she damages something.
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