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Jplloyd
Jplloyd

Truly first love really hurts four years of me fooling myself thinking its love, I should have watched her actions than listen to her words.Am trying my best to forget her and move on but it's hard but I know that with time and finding a new love will turn this present predicament to a past one 


Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
take time to heal, no contact is the best way to go. You will be fine. hugs.
Jplloyd
Jplloyd
Which I could collect the hug
GirlinCalif
GirlinCalif
So sorry. First loves are so powerful and it's hard to get over them, but trust me, you will. Stay busy. Don't let your mind wander too much into the past. Time to look forward.

I had a first love and he was everything to me. I couldn't even imagine that we would not be together forever. But, we grew apart, and grew up, and things just didn't work out. I rarely think about him anymore, sorry to admit!

The good news is you are only 21 years old, so you have your whole life ahead of you. Which is awesome. Think about all the things you want to do with your life. Think about things you wanted to do but couldn't, while you were with her. Get excited about your future! There is so much life and happiness ahead for you. I wish you the best.
Glad2Help
Glad2Help
First love really hurts. I was young and it almost completely wrecked me because I could not see the possibility of anything. Not ever being in love again, not working or a future, not interested in anything but her coming back. Well, it’s a learning experience and as long as you do not harm yourself you will be stronger and maybe even better off. It is hard to explain because you will see it as you experience it. So, just hang in there my friend, keep yourself busy and occupied and enjoy life even if you are alone for now.
Jplloyd
Jplloyd
All I pray is GOD give me the ability to trust again
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