Of those five things that you want, most can easily be replaced. Do you really need these things?

If it were me, I'd let them go. Not worth wasting time and emotional energy on.

Sending hugs. I know how frustrating an ex can be.

Yes, most can be replaced. The pajamas his daughter gave to me for Christmas, they actually mean something since they came from her and I do like them. The leather head rests to my third row. Not sure how much it costs to to replace them. The gloves, floor matts and Open House signs, can be replaced. Hate to have to pay my Company for the Open House signs... aagghhg.

ok, strangest thing just happened. I was at GNC.I opened apart of my wallet I never open, not even sure why I did. This is a wallet my ex gave me for Christmas because I needed a new wallet. I found in one of the plastic compartments $5. Now, I know that is something he put there. Those are the kind of things he would do because I never have money. I am queen of debit card.

It is hard to get them out of your life sometimes.
Law enforcement would be overkill I agree. Unless there is physical danger,
The car seat rests will be expensive though.

THanks all. No, never any abuse.

Ok Today, I emailed my ex about my stuff and told him my girlfriend is going on vacation 4/10 and asked for him to drop my stuff off between now and then. He said he could do it Thur around 8pm. I also, asked about $5, I found in the wallet he gave me at Christmas.He said he put it in there for good luck, he said his mother said never give a bag or purse empty.

Ok I'm just going to throw this out there- don't get mad or be offended or anything- but considering what this stuff is- other than sentimental PJ's it's stuff that is easily replaced - even the head rests- can be found pretty darn cheap on Ebay or other free advertising sites that are local (I know that is not the point)- are you sure it's really about the stuff? Are you sure it's not because you want him to actually try and make some sort of contact with you? For him to want to see you enough to make the arrangement to bring the stuff to you? You said he wants to move on so he should just give it back and be 100% done with things- how about you? do you want it to be 100% done? with him having your stuff and you making contact with him after blocking him in other ways is maybe sending the message that you have left a door open.

No actually, the day I left, I thought I took everything. He reminded me of somethings I had left. 3 of those things I told him to donate and or get rid of. I just had to come out of my pocket for First, last and security to move into a new place along, with spending 120 to commute to work. I do not have the money to replace honda pilot leather headrests and honda pilot floor matts. The Pj's his daughter gave to me for Christmas and are sentimental. I asked from the beginning to pick up, that he did not need to be there and that he could leave somewhere. He chose to not contact me for like 10 days. Then I reminded him again, and said he could drop at my girlfriends house, which is the next street over from his ex-wife's, that he could do that when he drops his son off, and as of Today still had not done it. So, today I email and ask again. Finally, he says OK, but, then asks do I want the signs too? I replied, yes please. So, who is not done here? In my heart do I want it to be over, NO, I do love him. However, I cannot move on knowing this is unresolved.

People are always going to have their opinions as to why someone does what they do. You have valuable enough reasons to yourself for getting the things you did. I don't know many who will leave behind something they really want, need or just want to have because it is theirs. I wish there were things that I still had that I no longer do because of the split. So I get it, mo need to have to justify it.

I am glad you are going to get your items back.

thanks chitown