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I have come to the conclusion that very few people have morals anymore. Tiger Woods who appeared to be a clean cut moral person had tons of affairs on his poor wife, most US presidents have had affairs when in office, Congressmen having tons of affairs, and there are tons of things out there to help people have affairs.
It is almost like moral people don't stand a chance. There are a lot of us on DS that have been cheated on as well.
This seems true but I believe that there are still good people out there. I think that it is hard to find them and it is hard to know for sure when you meet them. It takes time to see a person's true colors but in time all things reveal themselves.
I will not let myself slip into the pool of unmoral behavior that society has created. I will strive to bring those up around me. I will be myself!
It is almost like moral people don't stand a chance. There are a lot of us on DS that have been cheated on as well.
This seems true but I believe that there are still good people out there. I think that it is hard to find them and it is hard to know for sure when you meet them. It takes time to see a person's true colors but in time all things reveal themselves.
I will not let myself slip into the pool of unmoral behavior that society has created. I will strive to bring those up around me. I will be myself!
I dont believe that theyre useless and I shoud let myself off the hook, tell myself I've learned a lesson and then go on my merry way.
I really do believe that things like regret and guilt are evolutionary. Theres a purpose for feeling them.
Theres a reason why 12 step programmes make such a big deal about admitting faults and making amends.
Its not just about paying it backward, or appeasing self-reproachment or being accountable. Theres something spiritual about it, about bringing balance back to the state of affairs we ourselves screwed up. Its about honouring the spirit of the person we hurt as well as our own spirits. Its about honoruing our impact on everyone around us even when we want to be free enough to do whatever we damn well please.
People have morals. You just do not hear about them on television because they are too busy living their lives and worrying about day to day things.
The truth is though I say I want to throw it all away, it just ain't gonna happen.
I still have this annoying little thing in me called "hope" that keeps me going.