Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
All the thoughts I had when I was "married," were just thoughts. All of the feelings, were just feelings. Everything was in my head. Why do people let their thought dictate how they feel? Maybe if I change the way I feel about the thoughts I had when I was "married," then I won't dwell on the negative. Mind over matter. You can actually control your feelings, by replacing negative thoughts and feelings, with positive ones...
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This is absolutely true - a relationship breakup should not have the same effect on you as getting hit by a bus. It might at first feel that way but there is a reason why it ended. In most cases the person being dumped is far better off anyhow - it's more like something good happening to you.
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But, West... that all depends on how the person who has been left decides to look at it, just as TD said. We can look at things as though our life is over because our mate left & continue to wallow in self pity or be bitter (seen that lots of times) or we can count our blessings, take our lessons learned & look forward to the future knowing we are better people having worked through our experiences. Percetion is what our entire lives are built on, really. Do we add some sugar to our lemons & enjoy or just keep sucking on the bitterness? LOL....
pam96
Holy frig! I'm having a hard time with spelling lately... PERCEPTION... not percetion. :S
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