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Havent been on for few days. Im doing pretty well i think as im putting myself first for a change.
my husband on the other hand is still trying to mess with my head.still.
Even tho police are involved , my husband is very cunning and still manages to get to me in any way he can.
He has numerous ohone numbers and i block each one soon as i know its him.
He still sits in his car outside my house if im not there, as soon as i drive into my street i see him. By time police come he has gone. it is so intimidating.
I now leave work early in case he is hanging around by my car when i finish, which he has done.
He has hacked into my computer and i have had to change passwords and install better security
He looks through my letterbox. and sometimes leaves notes on my car wipers or shoves them through my door
when i see him he is always crying and begging by my car or window at home.
It tugs at my heartstrings at times as he looks dreadful, but he caused all this, not me.
I can block his calls no problem but the texts come through from different numbers and they are him pleading and begging to come home. And asking me. why are you doing this to me?
He did this. I try not to read the texts and its hard not to respond and give him a piece of my mind.
Everything is still being logged, and the numbers he uses
I dont think he will ever leave me alone unless he gets locked up.
injunction is not enough anymore.
my husband on the other hand is still trying to mess with my head.still.
Even tho police are involved , my husband is very cunning and still manages to get to me in any way he can.
He has numerous ohone numbers and i block each one soon as i know its him.
He still sits in his car outside my house if im not there, as soon as i drive into my street i see him. By time police come he has gone. it is so intimidating.
I now leave work early in case he is hanging around by my car when i finish, which he has done.
He has hacked into my computer and i have had to change passwords and install better security
He looks through my letterbox. and sometimes leaves notes on my car wipers or shoves them through my door
when i see him he is always crying and begging by my car or window at home.
It tugs at my heartstrings at times as he looks dreadful, but he caused all this, not me.
I can block his calls no problem but the texts come through from different numbers and they are him pleading and begging to come home. And asking me. why are you doing this to me?
He did this. I try not to read the texts and its hard not to respond and give him a piece of my mind.
Everything is still being logged, and the numbers he uses
I dont think he will ever leave me alone unless he gets locked up.
injunction is not enough anymore.
You really are handling things so well.
We are all here still sending love and hugs to you
Trespassing order so he cannot set foot on your property or within 500 feet of your vehicle. This will stop the letters, if one comes through he gets arrested. Period.
It shouldnt be tugging at your heart strings, it should be scaring the sh*t out of you.
FYI: I do know that there have been a couple of people on here the last couple of years that seemed to go on and on, and start multiple posts about the same thing, and never seemed to really want help. Those people were suspicious, and I believe one was actually mentally ill. The longer people are on here, the more wary and savvy they seem to become. It's hard, I know, but try not to take it personally. We really don't know you at all, so we can only go by what we read. If you are really upset about some of the content on here, you can always report it.
I do fear for your safety if he is still stalking you. I am not sure how law enforcement works in the UK, but I think they need to take this serious. That while resources may be scarce, I feel that they need to start putting a patrol car outside your house and place of business. I am not sure of the process, but I would take pictures of him outside your work, place of business or where ever you may find him. Continue to submit that to the police and hopefully soon they will start to take this serious.