Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Havent been on for few days. Im doing pretty well i think as im putting myself first for a change.
my husband on the other hand is still trying to mess with my head.still.
Even tho police are involved , my husband is very cunning and still manages to get to me in any way he can.
He has numerous ohone numbers and i block each one soon as i know its him.
He still sits in his car outside my house if im not there, as soon as i drive into my street i see him. By time police come he has gone. it is so intimidating.
I now leave work early in case he is hanging around by my car when i finish, which he has done.
He has hacked into my computer and i have had to change passwords and install better security
He looks through my letterbox. and sometimes leaves notes on my car wipers or shoves them through my door
when i see him he is always crying and begging by my car or window at home.
It tugs at my heartstrings at times as he looks dreadful, but he caused all this, not me.
I can block his calls no problem but the texts come through from different numbers and they are him pleading and begging to come home. And asking me. why are you doing this to me?
He did this. I try not to read the texts and its hard not to respond and give him a piece of my mind.
Everything is still being logged, and the numbers he uses
I dont think he will ever leave me alone unless he gets locked up.
injunction is not enough anymore.
my husband on the other hand is still trying to mess with my head.still.
Even tho police are involved , my husband is very cunning and still manages to get to me in any way he can.
He has numerous ohone numbers and i block each one soon as i know its him.
He still sits in his car outside my house if im not there, as soon as i drive into my street i see him. By time police come he has gone. it is so intimidating.
I now leave work early in case he is hanging around by my car when i finish, which he has done.
He has hacked into my computer and i have had to change passwords and install better security
He looks through my letterbox. and sometimes leaves notes on my car wipers or shoves them through my door
when i see him he is always crying and begging by my car or window at home.
It tugs at my heartstrings at times as he looks dreadful, but he caused all this, not me.
I can block his calls no problem but the texts come through from different numbers and they are him pleading and begging to come home. And asking me. why are you doing this to me?
He did this. I try not to read the texts and its hard not to respond and give him a piece of my mind.
Everything is still being logged, and the numbers he uses
I dont think he will ever leave me alone unless he gets locked up.
injunction is not enough anymore.
When I wanted her to try to protect herself from him as a stalker she came up with the reason of not being able to protect herself because of the U.K. laws. I researched and gave her the U.K. laws which DO allow her to protect herself. She will not act to protect herself and that makesme wonder that he is probably not a danger to her and she is not afraid of him, otherwise she would act against hiim. Put people in real fear situations for their life and have their stalker banging at their car windows and their home windows and you'd be amazed what people are capable of doing--it's called adrenaline. I'm the one that hit my abusive husband in the face during a situation and put him out.
Again, she will not act against him in any way. She calls the police, but she already knows it provides no factual evidence that he was actually there at her place because the police don't find him there. She knows that for police to jail him, they have to find him there, and she would need to act to protect herself so the police will arrive and find him there and have proof and tote his butt off to jail again and again. But that's not her plan.
Saying out the window to "go away" certainly isn't threatening to him and won't even scare away pidgeons. But doing what I told her before will give the police evidence to track him and then put him in jail.
When you have someone constantly crying out for help and they continuously refuse to help themselves and call themselves stupid all the time (which "Need" is doing and it begs for people to rush to her to say she is not stupid, plus look at the avator photo of the poor, pathetic woman ), there appears to be a need for attention. What about the therapy she was supposed to be going to, what about the support group she was supposed to be in touch with. And I also looked online and found many groups to help in the U.K. including one that has a call in line for you to speak with someone right on the phone. What about starting to make calls and getting all the help possible out there including the call in line.
So you have to ask, what is really going on here. I had a stalker and had him tied up with factual evidence, before the city judge, an order issued against him and served and he was out of my hair all within three months. She's been on here with this for about three months now. Wouldn't you be fed up with him as a stalker and do everything to protect yourself, get evidence to put him away in jail and to stop it? That's the difference. I had every intention of getting rid of my stalker for good.
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