STex I am sorry that you had a rough time today yet it is nice to hear your doing a little better, any step forward big or small is better than a step backwards. I have lost many friends, some family because of my stbx but I know those that have left if meant to be will return in the mean time I have met new friends at work , We have to throw out the old and welcome the new. It takes time and everyday is a day we can welcome as a good or bad day. Your a lot stronger than you think you are so continue to be strong as I am sure you are in a better place now than you were when it started.

I'm not, I can't do it anymore.

Why??? Can he live with you? Is it a blessing in disguise?

Yes he can live with me. It is just far from all his friends. My heart is just broken because he thinks his mom does not love him, because of him exposing the affair. She can not see that she is going to lose him forever.

Pray your heart out, you can do it.

Many on here have got thru it and Came
out better, healthier and happier. It just
Takes surviving the separation and divorce
Then the healing can start. That too is not
So easy Either just not so soul sucking.

Call A crisis hotline number if you need
to, Panic attacks are scary and debilitating.
HUGS

STex will be fine with people like us behind him. I'm sorry but calling a crisis line right now is not what he needs. He is concerned with his son right now as anyone would be.

I was not talking about his son i was talking
About him having a melt down. He said, i can
Not do it anymore.

i know what you meant and agreed he should later if need be, but right now he is most likely freaking out about his son and the current situation. Once he knows his son is safe and sound he can then regroup and decide what he wants to do from there.

Oh man it sounds dire but her kicking him out works in your favor! My daughter and son both live me my, my son returned for a bit to get his head above water and my daughter is 19 and getting her career going..I love having my kids while my stupid ex is shacked up with her affair partner, who really won there? ME! I get them during the holidays etc and she gets him and his family of losers lol. Oh and she gets her crazy mother that was a bonus! It all works out it's just overwhelming in the early days trust me

Hang in there buddy. You can get through this.

I am having a better day today. Yesterday was just one of those days, everything happened that could. It did give me more resolve to proceed with divorce and get my money together. An attorney friend has offered to help me with filing for free, I just have to pay court costs. I want to do it right now, but I will have to save.
I was just so frustrated with her not ever accepting that what she has done has destroyed so much and that our son is hurting. Does not even phase her. She is all about her right now. Why do I expect anything different?