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HeaveToo 01/27/2009

Equal Opportunity here. If we call older women who go for younger guys Cougars or Pumas, What should we call older men who go after younger women?

Since Cougars are cats, and most people associate cats with women, what should we associate with men? I am thinking older men who go after younger women could be called Bears?

Anyone have any suggestions or thoughts?

deleted_user 01/27/2009

LOL, very nice msde, very nice....

veeachjay 01/27/2009

You jumped right on that, Begin :)

How about just Hello.....

deleted_user 01/27/2009

mky - they have a name - they are called "cubs"

deleted_user 01/27/2009

Did someone say something about bears?

deleted_user 01/27/2009

yeah Yank, you might want to reconsider your avatar

deleted_user 01/27/2009

and why does it not shock me that Jo actually knew what they are called?

Oh, by the way, I did too

deleted_user 01/27/2009

Jaken! LMAO!

deleted_user 01/27/2009

Ah, yes...let's once again lump people into categories and generalizations. I prefer looking at people as individuals and not automatically assuming that they fall into a pig pen of stereotypes, like, say, a woman of 45 who is dating a man of 25. She is an individual, not a cougar or puma.

HeaveToo 01/27/2009

Apparently Bear is not a good one because someone said that it had to do something with Gay Culture.

deleted_user 01/27/2009

I am gettin quite an education.......

oh, the wonderful Knowledge on DS....

deleted_user 01/27/2009

Tangled, this is supposed to be silliness, I think. O:-)

deleted_user 01/27/2009

We're just good like that Soon!!!

(And Southern, Bernie called you "old, fat and hairy". I think he's jealous you were the most requested Secret Cupid guy....)

deleted_user 01/27/2009

I *heart* the Big Bear!

HeaveToo 01/27/2009

Ah Crap Tangled. This is just for fun. It is not like we are doing this to place a permament Stigmata on this.

As I said, Cougar is definately not a bad thing.

deleted_user 01/27/2009

Can you tell I reeaallly don't want to go to this meeting. Argh argh argh. Outta here. Thanks for the laughs.

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