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HeaveToo
Equal Opportunity here. If we call older women who go for younger guys Cougars or Pumas, What should we call older men who go after younger women?
Since Cougars are cats, and most people associate cats with women, what should we associate with men? I am thinking older men who go after younger women could be called Bears?
Anyone have any suggestions or thoughts?
Since Cougars are cats, and most people associate cats with women, what should we associate with men? I am thinking older men who go after younger women could be called Bears?
Anyone have any suggestions or thoughts?
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I personally don't care for those terms be it cougar puma or your reference bears. They are simply people trying to find what we are all trying to find or thought we found. People in search of love
HeaveToo
Booboo...What you are implying is that cougar and puma is a negative term. There is nothing wrong with the term!
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Rum!
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Absolutely, the cougars that i have been with are proud of the name :)
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I would call them lucky.
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I think thats a gay thing, not that there is any thing wrong with that. The gays have bears and cubs, so an older guy going after younger women is more like a Wolf.
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Status quo bear?
deleted_user
Seeing as a bear is used to refer to a large fat hairy gay guy I'll pass on that one.
HeaveToo
Hrm....Wolf sounds like a good one!
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Bastards.
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Trolls.
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Sugar Daddies.
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basset hounds - rotfl!
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Predators.
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I'm just kidding btw before I start getting hate mail. I just figure since the practice is so culturally accepted, the term should be derogatory to balance things out.
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