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Rman 10/09/2009

Is it bad to trick your mind into believing that you are happy? I do. I could get real with myself, but it's easier to just kid myself into believing I am happy. Is this unhealthy behavior? If it is, then I have to quit kidding myself into believing that eating a large pepperoni pizza is good for me...

deleted_user 10/09/2009

I like the part where he said he was 20 so he can't be datin any 14 yr olds.. LOL, Julie!!! Hope you are well, Hon!

deleted_user 10/09/2009

Hi Red!! HI soaked!!! :)

deleted_user 10/09/2009

Hi Hiker!! I love the part he says he has no modivation to get a job...and lives with his parents....NICE!!! LOL :)

Rman 10/09/2009

Yeah, that was one messed up dude in that video. He had to have been fake...

deleted_user 10/09/2009

And he feels NO emotion! LOLOL!

Rman 10/09/2009

Duh...did anyone realize that he mentioned the size of his penis?
I hate being a father of two girls, knowing that there are people like that in the world...
I'd kick his ass if I saw him...

deleted_user 10/09/2009

if you kicked the asses of every perv guy out there, you would be exhausted... It does SUCK to have to teach your daughter how to deal with it though. I have been doing that, lately. awful.

Rman 10/09/2009

I could stay exhausted if it meant eliminating all the pervs out there...
I actually fake a lot of my happiness, so that my daughters have a happy life...
It's a bitch sometimes, but I'm good at sucking it up and playing happy. I'll fake it till' I die...

deleted_user 10/09/2009

you'll fake it 'till you die? that is just the saddest thing i've ever heard. everyone deserves happiness.. there is no second chance at life. Kids are sometimes happiest when YOU are happier. And I don't think one person could fight ALL the pervs.....you may be able to fight all the ones on DS...LOL.

Rman 10/09/2009

I don't define happiness as finding the "right woman." I'm not really sure what I would consider happiness, anyway?

deleted_user 10/09/2009

Happiness is something different for everyone...some people need that other person, some don't.......some need to pursue a dream, some are content just working to live....you have to figure out what happiness would look like for you first. Imagine you had no responsibilities.....what would make you happy? then add in the responsibilities around that. It takes time to change a life.

Rman 10/09/2009

I would get paid to be a drummer, rather than just being a drummer...

deleted_user 10/09/2009

"Love would be cool." LMAO!! Rich Uncle! Awesome!

deleted_user 10/09/2009

that's your answer. You would be a drummer. Then you just have to fit everything else around that....but you have to drop things, too, to make room for that, and it takes work to make it happen. Life with a purpose is worth it, though... I think. You have to be willing to risk failure, too. I'm thinking about that, lately, too.. you have a purpose and talent is not accidental.

Rman 10/09/2009

Just before I met my wife...just right before that time...like exactly at that time, I was practicing drums for six to eight hours per day...I almost got out there to do it for money, but instead I ended up in a relationship...oh well...
still glad i have my daughters, so i guess i wouldn't change it for the world...i'll just keep faking it...my orgasms...

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