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Just don't know.

Itstillhurts_
Itstillhurts_

I know I should let go. At least for the time being, because there's always a chance we could get back together, but there's always a chance that we won't. And I need to prepare myself for the more oa

Itstillhurts_
Itstillhurts_
Don't know how to delete posts, so I'll just continue here. I was saying, that I don't know how to move on. I've done NC. I've done just friends. I don't really know what to do at this point because he consumes my every single thought. I miss him, and it's almost like my love for him has grown. Even though it's been 7 months since the breakup, that is still the man I want to marry. I know it. Something's you just know. You know them so powerfully you can't block it out. This cant be earased or moved on from. It's him. It'll always be him. I knew it was him from the moment I saw him. I just did. I still believe in love and I still believe in forever and idk what to do with all of these thoughts.
shaunac
shaunac
I feel similarly. I can't seem to get over a breakup that he tried to do on xmas but driving me for my vacation in Brazil. Then dumped me via text in a fight while I was there. I tried NC. I have been terrible at it. We were FWB for months until I finally moved. I think about him constantly even though I'm 13 hours away. I stalk his Facebook compulsively without leaving a trace. He visited me for a week of his vacation in September and I had hope until he shit it down and hurt me by saying he loved being single. I can't stand the thought of him being with someone else.
shaunac
shaunac
Sorry. There's some typos in there. *shut it down.
Nyuki
Nyuki
Hi,how are you today?

As one who has been through something similar,i totally understand you.I remember when i couldnt get over someone i really loved,i talked to a close friend whom i trusted and she who helped me to see the positive qualities i had going on at the time and slowly i began to see a new world,away from that hurt..my friend told me to always speak positive words to myself whenever i started being consumed with thoughts about him and little by little it worked..before long,i got the strength to let go and even wish him well...It was difficult but then i made progress with the help of my friend.Do you think you can find a close friend or relative to help you like my friend did with me?