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It's not enough to just love

Rman
Rman
Even if I love someone, it's not enough if i don't prove it...
deleted_user
deleted_user
DAB - I think too many (our STBX's among them) think love is just a feeling that sweeps over you and is supposed to work itself out later. Problem with that is, you are never going to truly commit to anyone because that feeling they get fades. Then the relationship they got into when they ruined the other one ends up being in worse shape, because they have to deal with the same issues plus baggage.

I think the bigger problem is, too many people don't understand what it takes to make a relationship work, or they just don't care. In my opinion, we're going to keep seeing more and more divorces or "open marriages" because of that.