Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband and I went through fertility treatment and had a miscarriage last year, and my husband says that is the reason he wants to divorce me, because he can't handle treatment anymore and wants me to be able to have kids- the good ole cliche "when you love something you have to let it go". But I am Catholic, so when he divorces me I will not be able to be involved with anyone or get married again- so I can't have kids anyway. He has fallen away from the church and his faith is not as important as it used to be, but mineis and he knows that. Why would he divorce me so I can have kids, if I can't have them if he divorces me?
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What about that verse that says if a nonbeliever leaves you, you are not at fault?
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He's grasping at straws and not prepared to stay the course and continue in the marriage. You can have kids via adoption or continued fertility treatments and I am sure he knows that, so the argument he's using is just an illogical straw man argument. If he is intent on divorce then your faith or his illogic is not going to stop him. Maybe speak with your priest, since faith is important to you. Good luck; I';m thinking of you.
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It sounds like to me, he is looking for an excuse. Maybe he feels that he will constantly live with the guilt that he can't give you children if he stays with you? I have a friend who has been thru 3 artificial inseminations, 3 in vitros, and still no baby. They had to just decide that they could be happy without a child. It almost broke them up..it's a hard topic...and every one is unique.
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