I am mostly confused when Rman posts, and I wish I wasn't. I have taken many threads seriously only to find their jokes (thats fine, I don't mind too much looking foolish erring on the side of seriousness), and then I have heard Rman say many times when he is serious, he doesn't get the support he wants because everyone takes everything he says as a joke, and I've fallen into that as well and don't feel too comfy laughing off a serious request for support.

So this kind of thread, which RMan has posted before, about killing his family leaves me feeling uncomfortable. Because I don't want him to miss getting support if thats what he needs, because even if he never thinks seriously about harming his family, it does taken some awful serious stress to even think of those things, and I figure anyone feeling that serious amount of stress should be supported.

So, am I to understand then, talk about violence will always be a joke? then I won't worry anymore.

Joy ~ I have to ask again. Where does it say he wants to kill his family?

I know why they're here. Few people do. But it's NOT my story to tell. So I won't.

I also don't question why other's are on here. If they want to share with me fine, but I won't give them a hard time if they don't want to.

As for participating in posts.... You hardly participate except for the silly threads. But that's as OK as the way that they choose to participate.

I suspect that for you it's a way of distraction. I suspect that for Joy it's a backwards way of figuring out stuff in her own life. And for G...well he's just the latest in the ones that want to defend other's on this site. The SAME as many, many others. And I Know that he's more supportive in Chat, than on the main boards.

Personally I think he's one of the nicer guys on here, and I've told him that. He's taken more grief that just about anyone on here.

Some people are just private. Strange that you all have that in common, and yet seem to butt heads on the main boards....

Peace Rman. I hope dinner is good. We're just having frozen chicken here. (I'm a better cook than my kids are getting to know. It's one of the penalties to pay for the divorce and me back in school.....oh well...there are worse things....)

UGH!
Twist, Twist, Twist...

1, Rman never mentioned his family or anyone for that matter.

2. He has been here for at least a year and a half posting off beat nonsensical, strangeness, it's nothing new. That's how he deals...

If you don't like it then don't look. If it bothers you then don't look. If it drives you crazy then put him on ignore.

He is no more going to kill his family than I am going to the moon.

It's the same Ol same Ol, The same group looking for something to stir and create.

He has just as mush of right to be here as the rest of you.

If this is how he deals and process's then so be it.
To each their own.

Thank you, Louie...

Ok so its nothing to worry about, its just a joke...got it.

thankyou Rman.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUmIdifIpic

Damn, I thought it was doing to be a real loophole. Hope dinner is better than mine. Hamburger Helper at my house.

I say funny posts like this breaks up the monerny of the board and gives people a break from all the hurt and upset.

I had never heard the word Cuckold - thanks Rman for my vocabulary word of the day.

Rman, murder and insanity is not a good way to go... i encourage (see i am being SUPPORTIVE!! :) you to go to the light.

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Giving you hugs, Rman!

Lynne

I also chuckled at cuckold. I agree that the randomness of Rmans posts usually bring humor. I see no threat in this post... just funny shock value. Thanks Rman.

Silly Rman, murder is 7-10 with good behavior.

And Trix are for kids.

PS.

Love how the "committee" banded together like a "boogle" would.