Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I just logged on and noticed that there is a lot less support and activity going on then there was a few months ago. It reminds me of the parenting support group I am in, where you post a message, then hope someone responds within a few weeks time. I guess everyone has pretty much healed and there aren't any breakups or divorces going on anymore. That is a good state of affairs for our society. It shows that people are finally pulling it all together and working it out in their lives.
I share your sentiments BC. I know there are times where I have written something that has been different then how others have read it or ill timed and vice versa. My intentions in any of my posts were never slighted or an underhanded jab at anyone, ever, regardless. There were a couple of times I was asked about my comments and I took the stance of "Why would you think that of me?" and got offended/standoffish instead of just understanding how someone might have taken it and explaining it wasn't meant that way.
As for those comments I thought were directed at me, while it hit me directly at first, and again, I took it personal, I had to remember my own mindset while reading them. Most likely, I was perceiving the comments as I thought them to be, not how it was meant or intended to be.
With many of us having the past experiences we have had it is not a wonder that we would perceive or take what someone else said and read or decipher with our own minds and thoughts. I know it is something I am working on continously within myself. I want to be able to not have my past issues with trust no effect my future interactions with others; especially those I care about.
Hi, Dutchy! Boobs are over rated and it's all about the legs... ;) Just supporting the alliance!! Hollah.
Ans,hiker... you can just hike those legs on over anytime...