Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I called my ex today and left a few messages asking for my painting back and told him I forgave him for what he did to me but that doesnt mean I accept his behavior. I said I want him to be happy and find someone in the future but he needs to at least talk to close friends about his lashing out and anger issues if he ever wants a real relationship.
Then I got angry and said I should have ended it with him in the begining when I had to compete with his computer for his affection. I had to compromise with him for a time slot that he didnt touch his computer when I would hang out over the few weekends we had.
That was really pathetic of me and I deserved better. I said we both rushed into the relationship when neither of us were ready and we were nothing but rebounds.
I know I said I'd never call him agian but after what he said.....he still wanted to be friends someday in the future that hurt. We could only be friends when he said we could, all he wanted to do was make sure he still kept some power over me.
I know it was cruel of me to call while he was at work but I am done being his rebound mentally. This is the end of it all now that I see that he never wanted anything from me no matter how sweetly he tried to say he wanted to try again in the future.
I know I messed up.....but its better this way. Now I dont have to sit and wait for the day he tries to talk to me agian because I wil be long gone.
Much it all hurts. When they could care less
What we think want or desire.
My ex would basically laugh at me at the end
Telling me, i thought i knew what was best for
Him, no matter what i said or did it had no bearing
Because he was checked out and long gone.
So dont expect a thank you for your insightful
Words and thoughts because you won't get one.
HUGS
I got to say what I needed, I'm not sorry for it and just knowing that he's gonna keep ignoring me is refreshing for once.
I can move on knowing I did try, I said my piece and there aint nothing he can do about it!
I wish my heart would harden or
heal toward my ex. One day to a
Time, i am still waiting for either.
I just cant understand whats going on.. and why the girl I have invested so much in.. has just dropped me and gone so cold.
I dont know whats killing me more, the intense anger or the aching dissabilitating hurt and fear.