TTMI729 - something is off -

"TTMI- Holy cow, you sure have dated a lot" - Not only a weird but narrow minded comment - I wonder what is a lot and who dictates that?

I got so burned out w/narrow minded/confrontational folks that I just blocked them - they can't see my replies, I can't see theirs - problem solved. - The post is about the young lady trying to figure it she should date - not about how many dates, lovers, fuk buddies anyone has had - who's who around here to cast stones? Wow

I agree, Millie.

Unfortunately, I haven't learned my lesson with that poster yet...he has come at me, recently, really picking apart my feelings or opinions about stuff that have nothing to do with or weren't even involving him.

So...I let myself act stupid on here for a minute, totally screwed up this post, and that sucks.

I blocked him, so no more issues with it. I'm not here to fight over stuff.

Thanks girl :)

millie- I am glad I am not one of those narrow minded people you blocked.

Sometimes, things are not what they seem and there is often motive and agenda in many of the things posted here.

I try to avoid that stuff on DS, but in this case I did not.

Well...

I know several people who tried POF and I haven't heard any success stories. Meat market. Married people looking for something on the side. Misrepresentation, sometimes extreme.

There's probably some of the above on any online dating site, but from all I've heard POF takes the cake. Of course there are some genuine people on POF, but it sounds like it's more challenging to find them than on other sites.

JASG - definitely. I wonder if, POF being so bad, if that's usually where people go first, because it's free...so then it colors the whole opinion of online dating?

Had I wanted to spend the money, I might've done Match or something...but, then, I didn't want to...so find a free site...and there's POF.

UGH! lol

Even the name...

One could assume it's inspired by the old clich, or might it have also have a more nefarious double meaning?

On another note I often practice catch and release when I'm fishing. :-)

Hahahaha

Dang, I think I'm well-schooled in catching a releasing lolol.

ok I went out and met some one.

*Sigh* I really do like him but...

I feel like as long as I have feelings for my ex I can't be trusted. The moment he even breaths the words lets get back together I'm history!

I feel hopeless. Yet I don't want to let go of this new guy he seems nice so far.

and yes I am aware of the sex sex sex thing going on. But if some one dumps me cause I wont have sex with them so be it. I won't emotionally invest my self in any one thank's to my ex.

What is a POF?

Online dating site. Plenty of Fish...

"For sex alone, there is always Ashley Madison (affair dating site). Why dont people just go there. This website is seriously just for hookups. Married or single i dont think it matters. At least its out in the open what you want."

I hope this was a really poor attempt at a very sick joke...

I'm not sure what you mean?

I've never heard of Ashley Madison? And I'm not married or looking for sex.

So I'm not sure what you are referring to.

Doorknob, keep seeing this guy and maybe it will help those crazy feelings for your ex to fade. You know your ex is no good and this is just a crazy phase you are going through. Those feeling will go. Hugs.

Doorknob: When your ex treated you so wrong, then wanted you back only for sex and not for a relationship, this wasn't someone that cared about you. Until you are able to get him out of your life and stop longing for him, it would probably be a good idea to not get involved with another person.

The baggage you haven't gotten rid of and still carry from your ex will carry on into the new relationship and poison it eventually.

Isn't there a rule that all comments must be nice? You know what they say about those who point fingers?????