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And people didn't believe me when I was complaining about the same thing!!
Dating can be soooo disheartening! That's why I gave it up. It's just crazy.
I never dated in high school, so I have no idea if I would have like it at all. I met my ex when I was 14.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C9rR1ZXb5Io&feature=PlayList&p=D03F0A68250F6D23&index=0&playnext=1
I think that I have gotten to be really picky too. Probably a good thing because I am not going to settle for less after my first experience taught me such a painful lesson.
I am looking for certain personality traits, certain attitude, and I need to be attracted to them and I am probably a tad bit shallow (as are most guys). There...I said it. I was being honest. I will wait for the ladies to draw and quarter me now!
After 5, 6,7 dates then start to see where things go, but it is all a learning experience. You are learning about them, they are learning about you, you both are learning if you could be compatible somewhere down the line.
If it doesn't work out, smile and move on, that's the joy of dating, you are not tied to someone who is not compatible with you.
Like I said...I am picky and shallow I guess.
I'm too old for the whole screwing around and crap that goes with casual dating. I don't have any desire to waste my time on that shit. It's not fun. It just leaves me feeling empty and stupid.
Mopri...you're assuming you get past the first 1 or 2 dates. I have yet to have a 3rd date with anyone. Their choice, not mine. They decided if I wasn't going to hop into bed on the 1st or 2nd date, they didn't want to waste their time. And yes, many of these guys told me exactly this...usually 3 or 4 days after they stood me up without so much as a phone call.
Dating is a waste of energy. I'll find other ways to fill my time.
And why not make the second date a more inexpensive one....going for a walk and ice cream or something.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C9rR1ZXb5Io&feature=PlayList&p=D03F0A68250F6D23&index=0&playnext=1
But to sleep with someone that you'd just met...yuck.