Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
ok not too long ago I left a long distance relationship cause she wouldn.t leave the guy she is with... long story... anyway recently I started talking to someone else and just found out she's living with 2 guys.... I have the shittiest luck but at least I found out now and not a year or so later
no more for me
I’m really not in a good place right now myself but for some reason your story resonates with me.
I’m pretty self destructive and a quitter.
It seems to me from you last post you want to quit too.
Now quitting something specific and destructive is a good thing.
Your statement feels more like a general quitting.
I’m like “Really?” The whole world?
I get you are unhappy in love. I am too.
But I encourage you to count your blessings and adopt “happy ending” statement on your thoughts.
Like my ex recently just dumped me.
But I still say “...and I ate a delicious meal just now.”
Try to find positive thoughts to balance out the negative thoughts.
Count your blessings.
And try not to take what other people’s situations and their actions personally, it’s been my experience what other people do is not personal to you, they are just trying to minimize their suffering.
That doesn’t mean be their doormat. But it does mean changing your story about why they did what they did,
Try that and let me know.
Stay strong.