Dang nova we all do that sometimes.

Grovel and apoligize. It's good for all of us to apoligize sometimes.

Want to switch brains, like that 'holiday' movie, for a day or two? Would that not be hilarious if we could brain-swap for holidays and such?

i'm silly today. have some flower coffee.

all. people. disappoint.

With some, it makes for a well-timed goodbye.

For people like you, it makes for a sweet reconciliation.

take two aspirins and apologize

I am willing to bet that she knows that you didn't mean to be mean to her. Reach out to her and let her know how much she means to you.... Flowers work great!

The key to rectifying a wrong, is one- to acknowledge it, two- set about a plan to rectify it, three- implement plan, four-bask in the after glow.
Don't be too hard on yourself, and chalk it up to a learning experience. She is your friend ,through all this, so she has gained lessons too, of how when we are hurting that we hurt those closest to us, and how when we think we may die , we push away those we love most, to try and save them pain. We don't know that we are doing that even, but sometimes we are. Be yourself , admit if you were wrong, grow from the lesson, and carry on being you, which is pretty damn terrific. I am giving you this one as a freebie, but the next time, I may have to come see ya;-) Love you Nova, Kimmee

here's some V8 with some Texas Pete in it - works for me...

Nova honey, I think in your heart you know what needs to be done. You really need to go to her and say "I was drunk, I said some things I shouldn't, I am sooooo sorry..." It may time for the wound to heal, but if she is a true friend and it sounds like she is... she will forgive you. The sooner the better.

Verbally "cut and paste" what you just posted and let her know how important she has been to you. I can't imagine that she wont be forgiving of your emotional brain-fart. Hugs and luck.

STOP - now just stop, dammit. Give yourself an F-ing break. Anyone that knows you loves you - and this person will certainly forgive you for whatever you said.

You of all people are allowed a rant. You recognize what you did, most people wouldn't, you are a good soul, say your apologies, they will forgive you if they have as big a heart as you.

Take care my friend......heal.

we do that with the people we most feel safe with and know will never leave us. the people we love the most and know they love us. tell her/him your sorry and you love them. ((((HUGS))))for all your going through.

My sister did this to me one time. I knocked me down, but then I processed what she was saying, where the hurt was coming from, what was happening in her life, and you know what I told her that I loved her. Nova that is what really attracts me to you is your honesty, I find you have qualities that I really want to gain in my life. I know I could ask you something and you would not give me bullshit. Ask forgiveness and know that you too made a mistake.

(slapping you)

Drink!

:(

It will smooth over... the ones that are always there, will always be there, you know that... We just learmn from it. Talk to her.

- the "m" in 'learn'... ;-)