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chrissym59 05/07/2009

I only moved out of the house 6 weeks ago and he already moved the skank in the house to take my place. WTF????

deleted_user 05/07/2009

I'm sorry Chrissy.

deleted_user 05/07/2009

Ouch.

BirkenstockBabe 05/07/2009

Ugh!

deleted_user 05/07/2009

Statistically speaking, you can just sit back and watch it fall apart right before your eyes. Laughing is completely optional.....

deleted_user 05/07/2009

Ouch, I bet that hurts...I am so not looking forward to the day I have to deal with that. I am sorry you have to see that. I keep thinking I want to move out of state so that I don't have to see or know when mine decides to do that.
These men have no sensitivity what so ever. They apparently do not attach the same sentimental value to things that we do.

((((hugs))))

deleted_user 05/07/2009

I am so sorry that you have to deal with this and I am just now figuring out that I need to start expecting the worse so that I won't be so shock when something else happens that blows my mind.

deleted_user 05/07/2009

(((((CHRISSY)))))

GeocacherNY 05/07/2009

took 6 weeks? or did you just only find out

deleted_user 05/07/2009

Chrissy, I am so sorry honey. Take a deep breathe and start taking care of yourself. He is history, now concentrate on your future.

Hugs, Nancy

chrissym59 05/07/2009

I soooo hope you are right Outofdashes! And yes I will laugh.
Actually Geocacher I just found out but it's been a week so it really only took 5 weeks.
It hurts.

aggiedolphin823 05/07/2009

So sorry Chrissy

((((((HUGS))))))

deleted_user 05/07/2009

Outfdashes is right. Affairs aren't fun for them in the light of day. Real life isn't exciting for them and it fizzles bad..........

I pray you will have the strength to say no when she leaves and he comes back around looking for you. Peace :0)

hurtinandhealin2560 05/07/2009

I'm so sorry, Chrissy.

I agree with ChristyD; sometimes expecting the worst helps ease the blow when it comes. I fully expect my ex to marry his skank just as soon as the ink is dry on our decree. It will hurt when I hear this, but not as badly because I've been expecting it.

Hugs!! Stay strong!

totallychaotic247 05/07/2009

I'm sorry for what you are going through. I agree with dash, the statistics really suck for him witht he ow. Just remember when one door closes another will open. It might be a long time before you realize the door is opening, but it will open. hugs, Kelly

deleted_user 05/07/2009

(hugs)

He's an ass. Mine did the same thing. He wanted to be single (one of the reasons I recieved) but yet as soon as I left she was there. Go figure.

Disgusting if you ask me.

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