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Ok I know I am but, now how do I fix it! I have divorced 2 years from my babies Daddy. 18 year marriage over 5 years before we let it go. My pain here was from the rebound fiance' not him. A month ago baby daddy lost his job and was homeless. Job loss was not his fault but, homeless at 46, HIS FAULT! He gets a dollar in his pocket and it is off to the bar or party! He cried to me. I looked at him like a damn stray dog. If you just let him go he will run into traffic and get run over! I didn't want him but I didn't want him to die! So I let him live in my guest room. Deal was he was to give me half of his unemployment check and work arounf=d the house for his room and board just until he got a job and on his feet.
He has a job now. Each payday he disappears for days. He has given me a total of $300.00 in 5 weeks and borrowed most of that back! He does nothing around the house. The other day when I came home he was laying his ass on my couch, eating my food, watch a damn pay per view movie! WTF I told him it doesn't mean, I pay and you view!!
I told him he has to go. He says, I'm trying, really I am. I know he thinks I am the weak woman he abused for 18 years. I am not!! He is not taking me seriously. I am afraid it is going to get ugly. My kids do not need to witness anymore of his temper. How do I get rid of him? He really has no where to go but that is not my problem! I am not his Momma! I wish I could just take him to the humane society and have him put down! I am not going to continue to support him, while he goes out and parties all his money away! Wow, how did I get myself into this, more importantly how do I get out of it??
He has a job now. Each payday he disappears for days. He has given me a total of $300.00 in 5 weeks and borrowed most of that back! He does nothing around the house. The other day when I came home he was laying his ass on my couch, eating my food, watch a damn pay per view movie! WTF I told him it doesn't mean, I pay and you view!!
I told him he has to go. He says, I'm trying, really I am. I know he thinks I am the weak woman he abused for 18 years. I am not!! He is not taking me seriously. I am afraid it is going to get ugly. My kids do not need to witness anymore of his temper. How do I get rid of him? He really has no where to go but that is not my problem! I am not his Momma! I wish I could just take him to the humane society and have him put down! I am not going to continue to support him, while he goes out and parties all his money away! Wow, how did I get myself into this, more importantly how do I get out of it??
Take him for a ride in the country, when you get really, really far from home throw a six pack out the window and sat FETCH!
When he dives out after it drive away very fast and DONT LOOK BACK!
If youre really worried about the ASPCA then have him neutered first.
Seriously, you have a big heart. Good luck!
I wouldn't let him stay through christmas because he is obviously upsetting you now. It isn't fair that you have to get through the holidays upset.
He's a big boy. He'll either find his way or find some sucker out at the bar that will take him in.
You have to make him and all people adhere to your boundaries. When you can't abide by rules you have to go..as plain as that.