Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I have been separated from my wife for 10 days. She did call on the 7th day. What makes it hard for me I am not sure I want her back and she is going to stay with her daughter an unknown period of time. Tonight I am going to some church functions as well as tomorrow. I live on a farm.
I have talked with an attorney about this and I have several options but he thinks I should stop and look both ways before proceeding. He is a family friend and has knows us for 20 years. I guess we have put on a good front.
I think she is intending to come back here and my problem is do I want her back???? It has been nice living by my self without all the critical stuff from her going on, I guess this is just a lonely period (this afternoon) for me just me and the air conditioner. How do others handle lonely periods?
J
I have talked with an attorney about this and I have several options but he thinks I should stop and look both ways before proceeding. He is a family friend and has knows us for 20 years. I guess we have put on a good front.
I think she is intending to come back here and my problem is do I want her back???? It has been nice living by my self without all the critical stuff from her going on, I guess this is just a lonely period (this afternoon) for me just me and the air conditioner. How do others handle lonely periods?
J
1 month for me, it's very hard. Lonely I am but I do not want my husband back. I'm sure we will both make it.
Hang in there:)
Now I am trying not to call him anymore, cause all it does is lead to fights. I'm trying to start focusing on what I can do for myself.
Good luck!
IT WILL WORK OUT I WILL THINK OF YA
When I do feel lonely I call friends, just to chat or to suggest a movie or get together. I do frequently go to the movies by myself. I've learned to do a lot by myself. I recently went to an art show downtown by myself. If you get use to doing things by yourself having someone there is an added bonus. My personal opinion is that it is necessary to learn to be by yourself, otherwise there is a very strong temptation to latch onto the 1st Mr. or Ms. Wrong who comes along in order to try to alleviate your loneliness.