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for me, last time was Oct of 09. so as of today 1 1/2 years but who's counting?
I'm beginning to think I"ve forgotten how to do that. If some woman ripped her pants off and offered that to me, I think I wouldn't know what to do with that part of the body. Do I just stare at it? sneeze on it? scratch it like a scratch 'n sniff? laugh at it? I don't know.
does anybody else feel like that or is it like riding a bike? you never forget?
I even wonder if I would remember how to kiss? I probably should practice in the mirror sometime or at least buy a mannequin and practice on that.
If you need to remember how to do "the nasty", you can always watch some thing on the internet, but that only helps so much. Just because you watch a video of a guy driving a car, that doesn't mean you will know how to drive a car from just watching the video.. know what I mean, jellybean?
I'm beginning to think I"ve forgotten how to do that. If some woman ripped her pants off and offered that to me, I think I wouldn't know what to do with that part of the body. Do I just stare at it? sneeze on it? scratch it like a scratch 'n sniff? laugh at it? I don't know.
does anybody else feel like that or is it like riding a bike? you never forget?
I even wonder if I would remember how to kiss? I probably should practice in the mirror sometime or at least buy a mannequin and practice on that.
If you need to remember how to do "the nasty", you can always watch some thing on the internet, but that only helps so much. Just because you watch a video of a guy driving a car, that doesn't mean you will know how to drive a car from just watching the video.. know what I mean, jellybean?
I think before we got together she was with a few other guys but nothing really satisfactory and she was divorced before we got together. I think when threatened she shut down sexually and was unable to maximize her pleasure. near the end I think that is what state she was in and I got kinda discouraged because pleasing her was like brain surgery: very difficult to achieve.
so as of now I"ve got an email from plenty of fish to respond to and already the questions are starting in my head: what's wrong with this chick and is she as crazy as my ex?
I wonder if this is what I have to look forward to with all women I meet who I could possibly date.....
Trying to avoid getting drunk because Im separated, NOT divorced and do NOT trust myself.
AND have been with one man for the last 17 years.....I have no idea what I would do if another man even touched me in that way? ?
Though I am beginnining to think I am not against the idea either...ugh!!
and I"m legally separated, not divorced either. But it's for insurance purposes, not anything else. it'll eventually be converted to a divorce anyway.