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for me, last time was Oct of 09. so as of today 1 1/2 years but who's counting?
I'm beginning to think I"ve forgotten how to do that. If some woman ripped her pants off and offered that to me, I think I wouldn't know what to do with that part of the body. Do I just stare at it? sneeze on it? scratch it like a scratch 'n sniff? laugh at it? I don't know.
does anybody else feel like that or is it like riding a bike? you never forget?
I even wonder if I would remember how to kiss? I probably should practice in the mirror sometime or at least buy a mannequin and practice on that.
If you need to remember how to do "the nasty", you can always watch some thing on the internet, but that only helps so much. Just because you watch a video of a guy driving a car, that doesn't mean you will know how to drive a car from just watching the video.. know what I mean, jellybean?
I'm beginning to think I"ve forgotten how to do that. If some woman ripped her pants off and offered that to me, I think I wouldn't know what to do with that part of the body. Do I just stare at it? sneeze on it? scratch it like a scratch 'n sniff? laugh at it? I don't know.
does anybody else feel like that or is it like riding a bike? you never forget?
I even wonder if I would remember how to kiss? I probably should practice in the mirror sometime or at least buy a mannequin and practice on that.
If you need to remember how to do "the nasty", you can always watch some thing on the internet, but that only helps so much. Just because you watch a video of a guy driving a car, that doesn't mean you will know how to drive a car from just watching the video.. know what I mean, jellybean?
i dont even think about it that much- i guess i am not in that phase yet. there are too many strings attached to so many other things right now- it rarely enters into my mind. when it does, i think about my exhusband being with who he is with now- and i just have to shut it down again. i think if you are with someone you love and care about and the feeling is mutual, it doesnt matter what you've forgotten or not forgotten- you just enjoy being with one another.
i do miss kissing and holding hands. i do remember how to do that. i do miss that the most. and i havent forgotten how to do those things.
"i think if you are with someone you love and care about and the feeling is mutual, it doesnt matter what you've forgotten or not forgotten- you just enjoy being with one another"
Its not about the skills. You can't think about that. Its hard to explain but its the passion and the pleasure with your partner that matters.
I may be grieving a loss of a relationship, but I still have needs too!
I'm sure come time for it I will get over it.
Just kidding, you can if you want. BUT, it was my old birds name, before the STBX gave her away. Lovely bright yellow love bird.
12 YEARS... AWESOME? really? OMG. WOW. I went 5 years in my twenties, I thought I was going to DIE.
Fathers day of 2010 was the last time for me... and to be honest, I wish I could take it back. It has probably been three years since I didn't feel like crap after it, so lets say 3 years since I had DECENT sex.
and, I'm pretty sure the pointy end goes in on the other person.