Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am angry because of so many things
That my children have to suffer through the pain of divorce
That I am in debt up to my eyeballs and can't imagine I will ever see a way out
That I have had to live on half my salary and BE A MAN.
That I can't be with my children at all times
That I have to start my life over
That I made bad decisions
That I have to face the fact that my ex never really loved or cared about me
That I live in the shitty apartment, whaen I had an awesome house I loved
That I don't get to play with the dog and can't even have a dog in my shitty apartment
That I am paralyzed and unmotivated to do anything more than take care of my kids, drink wine and wipe my ass.
That I had to sell nearly all of my prized posessions to survive
That the judicial system fucks men in the ass...yes sir may I have another.
Are ya gettin the picture here????
What are you angry about?
Stop with all this mushy political correctness and be out with it!!!!
That my children have to suffer through the pain of divorce
That I am in debt up to my eyeballs and can't imagine I will ever see a way out
That I have had to live on half my salary and BE A MAN.
That I can't be with my children at all times
That I have to start my life over
That I made bad decisions
That I have to face the fact that my ex never really loved or cared about me
That I live in the shitty apartment, whaen I had an awesome house I loved
That I don't get to play with the dog and can't even have a dog in my shitty apartment
That I am paralyzed and unmotivated to do anything more than take care of my kids, drink wine and wipe my ass.
That I had to sell nearly all of my prized posessions to survive
That the judicial system fucks men in the ass...yes sir may I have another.
Are ya gettin the picture here????
What are you angry about?
Stop with all this mushy political correctness and be out with it!!!!
I am angry that I am the one that has to explain to my little boy why we can live in our house anymore.
I am angry that my little girl is making bad grades because she cant focus at school.
I am angry that he doesnt care enough about his children to pay his child support.
I am angry that I took him back 3 times
I am just all around angry that he gets to call and be "superdad" and I have to take care of them every day alone.
Right now I am not doing a very good job at handling my anger especially when the asshole just called
-I have to move
-I have to start over in the dating world.
-I have a wasband who can't admit when he's wrong.
-I'm living on have the money we once had
-I have to be the strong and stable one
-I have to see my daughter's heart break every time she misses her father.
-That he couldn't get help for himself and our marriage.
-He gave up on us.
-That I have to make the effort to get a -divorce when he is the one who bailed.
-That he won't give me his address. hmmm.
-That to this day he truely believes his shit doesn't stink.
-That I wasted almost 15 yrs of my life w/ an emotionally unavailable man when I could have married someone much better.
I was angry because he chose to walk away from a GREAT family to be selfish.
I was angry because he blamed all of this stuff on me and acted like he had no choice because he was not happy.
I was angry because just when I started to see a light at the end of the debt tunnel he walked away and we both are in debt.
Not angry anymore because he still has to live with himself, is broke and I am fabulous and have grown so much :)
Well, right now, I'm angry/bitter about the fact that currently stuck in this city, her city, not my city. She, on the other hand, has everything. Her family, her city, her new bf.
I guess I'm angry that she's able to move on, because this is where she wants to be.
I'm angry because I find myself between a rock and a hard place. I coaxed my employer to let me move my job here, so she could be near her family. That was 8 years ago. I can't very well say to work now, I want to move back.
How do I handle my anger? The same way I did it while we were together. By clamming up! It's amazing what odd jobs can be found around the house to get done when one is angry. I would choose to sleep on the couch. When I get angry, rather than confrontation, I would simply get quiet, very quiet.
I don't think you can let people deep inside- it's too dangerous.
Thoughts after 1 beer and 1/4 glass of wine.
Cheers
that my wife cheated on me
that i wrecked my truck
that they closed my warehouse
that i lost the same job twice
that i went to jail
that she took both cars
that i dom't get my license back till jan
that stbx took my new laptop and threw it on the floor and shattered the screen
that our house is in foreclosure
that i cant work
that i didn't die in the facking wreck
that i gotta sit around and wait on my SSI.
that my stbx and my mother HATE each other,freaking puts me in the middle.
that i have to go to the doctor or hospital all the freaking time.
that i had a seizure
i could go on and on but it;s not gonna help anything.
and what do i do? well before i would just get drunk, but now i get drunk and take a couple pills. works for me.
sex and drugs and rock n roll are dead,someone shot the weekend in the head.