Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hello everyone,
I just wanted to take a moment and ask everyone how they were doing. Have you had any new insight into your feelings? any new thoughts or tried anything that has helped? Articles online? new books?
I know a lot of people don't post because they feel they don't want to just write a one line random vent but sometimes you never know what you can say that may click with someone else! I can say that when I joined this site I was a very very lost person and I actually really didn't believe I would ever feel okay again. Since then I have spoken to some wonderful people with such amazing insight and despite still feeling down, confused and having bad moments I have managed to find some hope that at some point in the future I may be okay again. I have no idea how long that may take and maybe I wont ever know if I will be able to trust someone again until that day actually occurs but somehow today doesn't feel as bad as the first day I joined this site did.
Take care everyone and thanks for reading =)
I just wanted to take a moment and ask everyone how they were doing. Have you had any new insight into your feelings? any new thoughts or tried anything that has helped? Articles online? new books?
I know a lot of people don't post because they feel they don't want to just write a one line random vent but sometimes you never know what you can say that may click with someone else! I can say that when I joined this site I was a very very lost person and I actually really didn't believe I would ever feel okay again. Since then I have spoken to some wonderful people with such amazing insight and despite still feeling down, confused and having bad moments I have managed to find some hope that at some point in the future I may be okay again. I have no idea how long that may take and maybe I wont ever know if I will be able to trust someone again until that day actually occurs but somehow today doesn't feel as bad as the first day I joined this site did.
Take care everyone and thanks for reading =)
Trying to take in all the heat they was giving
The night is dark but the sidewalk's bright
And lined with the light of the living
From a tenement window a transistor blasts
Turn around the corner things got real quiet real fast
I walked into a Tenth Avenue freeze-out
Tenth Avenue freeze-out
And I'm all alone, I'm all alone
And kid you better get the picture
And I'm on my own, I'm on my own
And I can't go home
Feel so mesmerized all that inside me.
The sunshine bores the daylights out of me.
Chasing shadows moonlight mystery.
Headed for the overload,
Splattered on the dirty road,
Kick me like you've kicked before,
I can't even feel the pain no more.
But I only get my rocks off while I'm dreaming,
I only get my rocks off while I'm sleeping.
I used to think the older someone got the more they would learn to appreciate things and mature. My ex was about 8 years older then me and I have realized that no matter how old someone is, they can have commitment issues, act childish and selfish. Being realistic is a great place to be I think the worst thing we can do is be in denial or live in fake bubble acting like everything will be just fine without ever seeing any signs to back that fact up. I am glad you are doing better
Similar to you TM1070 and others, I too met a man with nothing, in debt, he was living with his parents and driving his father's car. I encouraged him to go back to school, supported him with everything and helped in toward the path of home ownership. In the end, he got most of it and he even asked for all the wedding gifts we got (which I gave to him) but I NEVER gave back the wedding rings and I'm in the process of selling them.
The truth is, he has it all and no-one to share it with and that is not fun for him. Never stoop to someone else's level. Life is not about materialistic things it's about the person we have become. Leave him be, in the end he will sow what he reaps.