Some of you have heard my story before but this is an update of what has been going on since she disappeared for three days and then dumped me. Everything was going so well. She gave me kisses over the phone every night, we talked for an hour at least twice a day, we had fun when we did, she texted me when she went to sleep, she was the one calling me. I thought her she was coming back and bam!, she tells me that she is seeing another guy, the same guy she told me before. And that she is feeling happy with this and she needed it. She said that we are having such a good time because we were friends but as a couple we were a disaster. She feels her last trip to visit me was bad. I was sick and under a lot of stress from my job so it is true I was more careful with not overdoing it with things like sex, because I had no energy and had to deal with my situation at work. I was fighting not to lose half of my salary plus I was trying to keep my job while I recovered. That was in October. She never visited again and did not want me to visit after that trip. She used to argue a lot about silly things, mostly postings from female friends on my facebook page. I told her from the very beginning that she was sabotaging her own happiness with this constant bickering. According to her I was the love of her life and she remembers every detail of when we were a couple in high school. I dont understand any of this. I am so confused. I feel she gave up easily because my illness is long term. Ironically, I am in very good shape now and I can do a lot of the things she complained about before. She says is not leaving me because I of my illness but because my behavior showed that I did not love her as she felt she needed. I loved her with all my heart. I wanted to marry her. I cant stop crying. Everything was going so well. And now she said she still needs my kisses and my conversations every day. What about the other guy? What is she doing? I feel she still loves me but what she is doing is a big question mark for me. On Presidents day weekend she disappeared for three days just after she told me she loved me. Then she dumped me the next day. I am sure she was with this guy. That is why she disappeared and why she changed so suddenly. I am so confused. She just texted me to say she wants to have a talk with me. Please advice me. I am very confused.