Ok, so I finally left him 11/20 - all the signs showed that he was having another affair. Ever since we were married, almost 14 years ago. He has degraded me - told me that I was an embarrassment to be seen in public with. Wouldn't take me out places. Said that he worked harder then I did and that he deserved to go out and enjoy himself. So on and So on. The final blow started in Aug 2011 - I could not prove it, but I could feel it. Yes he indeed had another woman. He was coming home late, if he came home at all. I found a dozen roses hidden in our RV. He would leave on a Saturday morning and drive an hour or more away to buy something that he could buy 15 minutes up the street. The true final blow was the night we fought and he drew his fist back and looked me in the eyes and told me to get out of "his" house. I knew right then and there that if I didn't leave, someone was gonna get hurt. And because he stands a foot taller then I do, it would have been me. Ok, so jump a few months later. His ultimate fatal error. He opened a facebook page and the only person who was not a family member was a woman that I had never seen in my life with him. He claimed that she was an old friend. Well I had heard thru the grapevine that he was trying to brake up a marriage. Then this woman made a facebook comment that "it's sad when your happier the day you receive your divorce papers then the day you said I do". That same day she also posted pictures of her son and my husband in my garage with our boat in the back ground. Some pictures of her ugly a** dog laying in my kitchen and in front of my fireplace. So here in Maryland, I looked up this womans name in the Judiciary Case search and guess what, I caught them red handed. Yup, she was married only 4 months earlier. She kicked her newlywed husband out of the house and moved my husband in only 3 days later. Because I was still living at the house with our daughter and had not moved out. They lived in her home. This all occurred around Nov 3rd or 4th. But I didn't find out until Feb 8th. I contacted the soon to be ex husband and we have compared notes. We know exactly where and how they met. We know when they were together and where. We have recreated the whole scene. Unfortunately for me, Maryland does not recognize adultry other than to allow me to get my divorce sooner. I don't get compensated anything extra for the lies and decent that I lived with for 15 years. So now he wants me to sign off of the house that only has $15,000 equity - all of our big items, 2 boats, RV, gocart, 4wheelers, race car etc. With no monetary compensation. All the while, they have now moved into my home and are living what should have been my life. And I'm the Bitch. Really - come on. I tried to leave 4 or 5 times over the years. He begged me and threatened me to I stay. Only for him to throw me away like a piece of garbage. I am so freaking torn up about this. I can't stop thinking, crying, stomping, screaming. How dare he? Really, How dare he? If he didn't love me, he should have just let me go. So Hell to the NO. I am not signing anything over to him. Do I hear an AMEN???