So I'm only a little over a month out from DDay. I'm sure my best option is divorce at this point. My husband has completely changed to the point that no one understands the decisions he's making. He started having an affair with a coworker supposedly in November and he already "loves her." But she's told him she doesn't want a relationship with him right now (yeah right, the phone records say differently). He works in another town and commutes every day to work. She also lives in that town.
Since DDay he has been staying with his dad on his couch. But this weekend he texted me that the roads would be icy so he signed up for overtime yesterday and today and was going to a friend's to watch football tomorrow. So he would see them around noon on Monday. Note: he texted me this at the last possible second on Friday morning before he went into work so I couldn't respond. And he didn't come back to his dad's last night so I can only assume he's staying with her this weekend. She has 3 kids and is separated from her husband.
We were the family that spent 24/7 together. He has never been away from his kids for this long. I'm getting ready to file and I'm definitely considering full custody right now. I'm just having a hard time deciding what's best for my kids, DD 8, DS 4, who adore their father. But this guy is not the dad they knew. Any advice?
I need to vent because I'm really frustrated. Why the hell is everyone saying the same thing and giving the same advice? I go on many different forums regarding sleep and anxiety and there's nothing new to be learned. Everyone is just regurgitating the same unhelpful advice, it seems, just so that they could put in their two cents. I found out a few weeks ago that I have a severe vitamin D...
I've never posted on any sites or really read many other post until just a few days ago. Primarily because until a few months ago I thought everything was OK. Not sure how much or how little I'm supposed to share. My wife and I have been married for 16yrs. For the most part I always thought we we're happy and others that knew us would agree. We recently moved because of my job and she started...