Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My boyfriend and I have been struggling for months due to bad fights and him having extreme reactions of jealousy because he read my diary and discovered I had developed feelings for someone else when I needed someone to talk to, nothing ever came if it. That was half a year ago and we've both been working on ourselves but I have felt rushed and bullied into healing faster.
He has gotten mad at me for not opening up to him at a faster pace. For not being there for him when I was trying to heal too. We've had fights where I've broken down crying and begging him to back off.
Well last night he read my phone and saw I had been casually talking to the guy I used to think I had feelings for. My boyfriend started yelling, telling me to get out and then he punched the wall.
I drove him to the hospital and sat there in the waiting room wondering why I felt so numb. I messed up, I shouldn't have been talking to the other guy especially after my boyfriend asked me not to but I became selfish and just wanted something in my life to feel normal again.
-
Now that I am not talking to my whatever best friend, I realized that her life is full of drama. I had grown tired of hearing her stories about her boyfriend many months ago. She basically had been monopolizing conversations for that long too. She pretty much stopped asking me questions about me. I passed her in front of her classroom the other day and didn't even look at her. I am...
-
Does anyone here have a comfort item you carry with you when you go out? For example this is my doll, Annie, and I've recently been bringing her with me when I run errrands flor have an appointment. Holding her comforts me. I've bought her clothes, crocheted for her, I recently bought a personalized blanket with her name on it. Just wondering if anyone else has a comfort item.
One thing I’ve learned no matter how much you like/love someone sometimes they just aren’t right for you…
I used to be a very jealous person & took a lot of time and effort for me to overcome it & the right partner..
If he has a temper that makes you wary of him I agree that this isn't a good fit I would get out
I'm going to play devil's advocate though
How do you think you'd feel if you were reading his journal and saw he cared for another woman and then later you found him on the phone with this woman
You both really need to decide if you want to work on this relationship or not
I wish you well in whatever decision you make
Big hug...xo